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Consider This…

  1. More is learned from changes occurring over time. Sudden changes leave little to no room for expansion.
  2. The Universe gives you what you need, not always what you want.
  3. Lessons learned earlier in life are built upon as you age and mature. Not absorbing the information or intentionally skipping it will delay any further learning. These gaps may stall any learning at all.
  4. Ignorance about lessons provided by people you don’t respect or choose to ignore will also affect any future learning. There are times when your parents, an older sibling or other person provide some much-needed information but you ignore it because of the person who is delivering the messages to you. It is far better to weigh the information and decide whether it is sound advice or not.
  5. Even elders or other mature people change their perspectives over time. Allow for this expansion instead of challenging their shifting direction.
  6. Dogma turns even polite people away.
  7. Believing that you have nothing more to learn is the surest way to stop evolving.
  8. Sometimes you may open an important door simply by admitting that you are wrong.
  9. Opportunities come in all sizes. Some may be imperceptible and others you cannot miss.
  10. Travel may just occupy your time. Staying in place and focusing on learning may be a better choice.
  11. Looking beyond this atmosphere may only serve to block your attention to what we must all deal with. Issues regarding this planet must be addressed or what lies in the Universe will not matter at all.
  12. The earth will not cease to exist but it will become uninhabitable.
  13. People take themselves far too seriously. Being open-minded and relaxed will prove to be far healthier and productive.
  14. War makes for strange bedfellows but love challenges no one. You would be much happier in a room full of loved ones rather than strange people ready for a fight.
  15. There is a power greater than us. This is exactly why we may be forgiven, loved and healed without delay. If it was up to us, we would find problems which forbid these simple things.
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Healing for the Holidays

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Forgive.

In today’s world is it really this simple? It can be. No one is asking that you forgive and forget. Just start the process by forgiving.

Many actions and events are far too serious to forgive and this is true. There are things that no one will ever be able to understand. There is a point at which you may forgive someone. Perhaps it was something unintentional. Maybe they were abusing substances or undergoing severe trauma. It may have been a mistake that may be placed in perspective thus making it easier to understand. Then, there are things which you will never be able to forgive anyone for. Things that were unspeakable. These instances must be dealt with as well. No, you are not expected to forgive someone for anything heinous. But let us see if we can put it perspective as well.

The first talking point is about personal power. Have you ceased to grow and succeed because of something that was done to you? Have you allowed it to interfere with many areas of your current life? Then, you have given this person or situation your personal power. You have dealt with the trauma by not dealing with the trauma. You have allowed it to alter your life and cause you unhappiness, dysfunction and possibly illness.

You have given the best and the worst of you away. You are not in a position to deal with this event because you have given up any control or positive response that you could have had regarding it. You let go of the wheel and have allowed dark and dismal energy to define who you are. This is not recommended. You must be responsible for your own thoughts and feelings. The lack of direction and healing that makes you feel out of control is exactly what comes from you giving up your personal power.

Do you make statements like, “I could be happily married with my own family if not for this…” Or, “If I did not suffer … I would be in good health, productive and successful.” This is the wrong way to approach anything so essential to your sense of self-worth. Work to the point where you say, “I am happy and loving despite…” “I have overcome… and now I have love, prosperity and good health.” Eventually you will make statements without the added references to trauma, abuse or crisis. This will take time and effort. Wishing it away doesn’t work.

The second talking point is to release any anger. Yes, this sounds extremely difficult but the reason to do so is positive. The anger is not affecting anyone but you or those close to you. You are harboring darkness that interferes with the amount of love and hope that you may feel. In this instance, your anger is not productive. You have not progressed through any other stages of coping or grief about a situation. You have stalled in the anger phase and have harmed yourself and your close relationships because of it. The person who caused your pain is not suffering in the least, you are.

There are times when anger is a motivation or even a tool to get things done. If you are holding anger from past years or childhood events, this has gone on far too long. Release the anger and allow yourself time to heal. Let it go. Talk to yourself, say a prayer, perform some kind of ritual, see a counselor, join a support group… Talk it out and let it go. Remind yourself each day to let it go. Use positive affirmations. Never find out that you have to say “I am strong but…” No! You are strong, healthy, beautiful, prosperous and generous. No one has taken any of this away from you. For some reason you gave it away but you will not do this any more.

The third talking point is to refuse to accept any blame if your trauma occurred when you were a child. The adults in the environment did not keep you safe. Either they truly did not know what went wrong or they are pretending that they didn’t. Either way, do not blame yourself. There is a great deal of dysfunction that occurs in some families. Many adults or older people in the home do not want to deal with any problems that could get upsetting. They may pretend they don’t know or they may walk away from the situation just so they don’t have to deal with it.

Sometimes the older sibling believe that you deserve your mistreatment or they were abused and now it is your turn. They may not be old enough to understand that any of it should not be happening. They make adjustments to survive in the dysfunction and they rarely take a stand against what is wrong. There are also times when one parent does not intervene when another parent is abusing the children. This is also what dysfunction looks like. Everyone adjusts their own behavior so that they either escape the abuse or don’t have to deal with it.

The lack of action is also not your fault. As a child you were unable to understand and process the complexities of your life. You may even have thought your life was “normal.” The time to accept any responsibility is now. You are an adult and you understand at least part of the problem. Now is the time to deal with it and heal. Make your life better and make the lives of the next generation even better. As an adult you may begin a new phase of healing, growth and healthy relationships with your loved ones. If someone does not want to be a part of this improvement, let it go. You are responsible for you. Gather new “family” who are of like-mind and begin what may be the most productive years of your life.

The fourth talking point is to forgive as many times as necessary to benefit from your efforts. Each day you may have to release your pain, anger and desire for vengeance. Keep up the effort and discover ways to feel safe and whole without making anyone responsible for your healing. Again, you are responsible for you. Set down any dark or dismal energy and make the most of each day. There will be setbacks but this is also manageable. Any change takes time and this is no different. It will help to pray, journal, seek professional help and perform some healing actions.

You may not be able to do this on your own but that is ok. If you invest in your own healing the universe will invest in it as well. You are not alone and you are strong enough to get through this. We have spoken about your daily self-care. This is another action to take, release your lower vibrations each day and throughout the day if needed. If you don’t release these darker blockages, healing will have little room to take place. Breath easier and open up your world. Find the good health and healing that comes from placing your injuries in perspective and realizing that you are healthy and whole anyway. You are larger than the sum of all of your issues. Really.

The fifth talking point is sincere attempts to raise your vibration will benefit you even if you are unable to cope with all of your past injuries. Brighter and lighter will make depression, anger, illness and dysfunction leave you. Your hurt finds a way out and you will refill your precious inner space with something better. Your improved emotional health will make it easier to bring issues to light and release them. You may wonder why you were so hurt by something to begin with.

Each day will feel like a new opportunity to experience good health and wellbeing. All you have to do is ALLOW your healing to take place. RELEASE any need to get hung up on any past event or situation. And, develop a strong FAITH knowing that all matters pale in comparison to your joy, love and positive intentions. Be open to different types of help. Get a healing, Reiki, message, psychic reading, reflexology, energy clearing, sweat lodge, books, support groups, individual counseling… MEDITATION is essential.

If you have trouble meditating, keep trying. Use a guided meditation CD. Join a meditation group. Begin by being silent, still and quiet your mind, then go from there. Even a warm bath and being purely in that moment will help. When you make progress meditating emotions, memories and concerns will rise up. Then, while still in that blissful meditative state, let it go. Make room for love, support and guidance from God and spirit. In that stillness, you align more closely with the universe and who you really are.

There is no better time to begin your healing journey. The world is full of love and hope and you may use this positive energy.

Save Yourself First

This is expertly defined by the common example of applying your oxygen mask first in an airplane emergency. If you fall unconscious then you are unable to help anyone else. By saving yourself first, you increase the options of people who will be helped by you, including your children or other loved ones.

This is a difficult concept for many people to grasp. Of course we would “save” our child first! But this is not the best option. By saving yourself first, such as emotional and physical healing, you are better able to save those around you, with healing, love and support. Everyone is better off if you are safe, stable and emotionally healthy. You will be stronger for everyone. You may lead by example and teach others how to promote emotional health and wellbeing.

The difference in teachers is profound. Some are knowledgeable, well-versed, organized and able to get their point across. Others are disorganized, unreliable and emotionally limited. Which type will teach better? The organized one with experience and emotional stability.

Any leader will have better results if they have done their homework, are receptive to variables, truly wish to promote the success of others and resist any breakdown in communication.

What happens when you challenge a leader who does not have any stability? They react poorly. They may lash out, make you the cause of the problem, become distant, lose their focus, appear undone or ignore the breakdown in communication. These are not positive reactions. They lack the strength to teach and lead.

Your intention is to be the better leader/teacher. Through emotional strength and stability you will withstand many conflicts. Faith will show others how grounded and resilient you are. They will lower their defensiveness and be more available to you. You have saved yourself first. Who must you lead? Many people. Most are likely children, coworkers, family members, community members and so on…

We have mentioned many times that you came into this life to teach and to learn. Both sides of the coin. What you are not accepting is that you may lead others and NOT be their parent, boss or partner. Even brief encounters may have the potential to help, improve or benefit someone. Please do not be so literal. God has never sent anyone to earth to live in isolation and not impact those around them. This is part of your life.

You may have positive influences on others and negative ones. The list of these influences would be as expected. Are you a better leader by showing others to steal and commit fraud or by encouraging others to volunteer for charity? Very few things in life are black and white but this list is one of them. Be good, do good. Show others to be good and do good as well. Easier said than done.

The hard part is healing yourself. You have to pick apart many layers of pain and turmoil and resolve them enough in order to be whole. A lot of cleansing and forgiveness is needed. Seeing people as fallible will help. Sometimes loved ones behave in certain ways because that is all they know. You are capable of the same missteps. This doesn’t make you a bad person either. It only means that you and them are still learning and have not found a better way yet. With age usually comes wisdom but this is not guaranteed.

Many people who have been asked if they could would they return to a younger age? Often, the answer if yes but only if I could know what I know now. Many people see that they have made some mistakes along the way. The people who have harmed you may also realize it now. BUT, you must not wait for someone to acknowledge their wrong doing or apologize. You will waste too much time waiting for something that may never happen. Learn to be whole on your own. Just you. This is when you have healed enough to help others to heal as well. Everyone will benefit from your stability.

Immediate healing would take releasing all harmful memories, negative thinking, flushing any dark or muddy energy and complete faith in God. Most people find it much harder than that. Any guide, whether here on earth or on the Other Side, would suggest small, manageable steps since the changes are easier to maintain. Do your best to not fall back into your old habits. The more clarity and light you achieve, the easier the journey becomes.

 

Light As A Feather

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Your guides, departed loved ones and all of Creation wish to be the wind beneath your wings. If you are mired in mucky, dark and dismal gunk, how will they be able to help? Spirit will not do everything for you. If you want enlightenment, you must make some changes to your current condition.

The first thing to remember is that you must give your guides, angels and God permission to act on your behalf. If you do not then your own free will is going to take precedence. No one may override you even if it is good for you or something that you actually want.

The only exception is in crisis situations when you ask for help to survive a deadly crash, a sudden potentially terminal illness or any situation which could cause you serious harm or death. This happens because in this crisis moment you have given up your intent to self-determination and have given your life and wellbeing to a Higher Power. You literally have given up in a way. At that moment you have given your life to God to save.

Bartering doesn’t work. You may speak of some commitment or devotion in exchange for your life or wellbeing. This doesn’t work because you have charted your dilemma and the outcome is likely predestined. There are last moment rescues and miracles but most incidents have been charted in advance. Bartering does little if you have lived a life of darkness. You do have the ability to turn toward God at any moment but the circumstances will remain unchanged if it is destiny.

Sometimes these dramatic situations are your soul’s way of shaking you up and encouraging a more positive and loving life. This also was predestined. Whether it works or not is up to you.

Each life has exit points. You are able to leave at a certain time if you choose. Usually someone younger would choose to remain in this life because they have more to do. Someone older may be more willing to return home. Then there are souls who have finished their life work early like in childhood and they choose to leave because their commitments are done.

This sudden life or death situation may be an exit point. In moments, you decide if you want to stay here on earth or return home. Then, once the decision has been made, the outcome shifts to accommodate your wishes. Again, bartering has little influence upon this because this exit point was planned and expected.

You may have charted an exit point and then decide to remain here on earth. Sometimes this does require a rescue by angels, loved ones or higher beings. It may have been written for you to exit and then this last moment cry was responded to and you remained here. This would qualify as a miracle. You may remember the arrival of some Heavenly being intervening on your behalf. Perhaps you saw a Light, felt someone embrace you, push cars or machinery out of your way,  break your high fever or repair some damaged body tissue.

Our hope is that you make changes to this life and seek God now. You are not helpless. You must do the work. Some life circumstances seem impossible to overcome yet We encourage you to do it. “But this…” or “But that…” doesn’t work. You must OVERCOME.

Horrible things have happened to many people yet God needs you to cut yourself from your dark chains and at least begin to rise up. Heaven may not get beneath your wings if you have not cut some of those damaging habits, thoughts and victim-centered behavior.

Many people speak of being a victim. Then, with faith, support and intent, they begin to identify as a survivor. This is truly a special moment. This is what makes the difference between letting life happen to you or choosing to be empowered. Taking back your personal power will be enough to have energy rise up with you. Waiting for anyone, including God, to heal and empower you will not work. It is a partnership. God helps those who help themselves.

This is true with illness, injury, emotional problems, assault or other violent crime, financial problems, family issues, natural disasters… This may seem heartless to you but what you forget is that you charted all of this. You asked for contrast and the Universe is playing it’s part. You are unable to just cry out loud for your chart to change. You must OVERCOME.

Be vigilant to cut the damaged energy, heavy pressure and anxiety that you may believe is your life. Lift the pressure off of your chest, shoulders, upper back, head, stomach, abdomen or other body structure. It is NOT normal to feel weighed down upon. Many emotional issues become physical problems. You begin to move throughout your day and accept the stress, fear and negative energy on and around you. This is not your true existence. The continuous and repeated pressure causes actual injury or illness. You must release everything that is not YOU.

Meditate, get a healing, eat less fat and sugar, get more exercise, pray! Envision a great pressure being lifted off of you. Work to feel lighter and brighter. Stop expecting  to feel sick or injured. Get back to what your body actually feels like without your emotional weights and damages.

Light! Mellow! At peace! Buoyant!  Allow God, spirit and loved ones to help raise you up. They cannot do all of the work. You are your own healer. Have intent to be available to God.

We are sorry but… cancer, drought, the loss of a child, bankruptcy, suffering violence, blindness, catastrophic flooding… are what you came here to confront and OVERCOME. We are sympathetic. We do love you very much. We wish only to help and to guide you. Life is charted with tremendous challenges but you signed on because you believed in yourself enough to get through this. The strength and empowerment you felt as your soul does not feel the same as living as a human here on earth. It is this frail, imperfect body that you identify with when you really must believe more in your soul. You are eternal. You are successful. You had great spiritual and emotional strength to try this plane of existence again.

Your soul never said that this life cannot be done, that it is too hard or complicated. Your soul was excited by the thought of being here again and getting things right. This IS the challenge that you signed on for. Rise up and take note of every beautiful, celestial being who gathers to help you fly. Remember to be the Light everyday. YOU are who you are looking for and We exist to serve you.

 

The Transition is Peaceful…

The transition is peaceful and melodic. The struggle that you feel each and every day is actually not your own. For whatever reason you carry around energy, injury and debris from many years and many lifetimes. You think that the world weighs down upon you because this is your lot in life. This is completely untrue. The deadening weight is energy that you suppose is yours.

“I suppose this is my punishment.” For what?

“I suppose I am a beast of burden and I must carry the weight of others as well as may own.” Why?

“I suppose I haven’t found the key to life so this pressure will not resolve.” Really?

“I suppose everyone feels this horrible weight just like I do.” Not really.

You need meditation, healing, energy cleansing exercises, relief and forgiveness for yourself and others. The pressure that you have chosen to carry may also be released. 90% of it is not even yours! Why have you chosen to bear this dark, heavy burden upon your actual being? This is not metaphorical weight. This is actual stress, pressure, dark and clingy energy usually upon your shoulders, neck, upper back or chest. You have spent much of this life collecting this burden for no real reason.

Guilt may be the #1 cause. Shame for what you believe is a shortfall in your success, faith, job, financial status, family structure, sexual orientation, mental health, visible prosperity… may be another. The oppressive expectations of others may be yet another cause.

You do not have to walk each day of this life with shame, guilt or feelings of failure. None of it is essential. None of it is true. If you notice these 3 causes are not something that you have decided for yourself. They are causes that other people’s opinions have been placed upon you and you kept them. When these thoughts of shame, guilt and failure started, the people who looked upon you probably didn’t even judge you so harshly. You noticed their attention and YOU assigned a negative reason behind it. Then, decided to spend your life proving it to yourself over and over again.

You do not have to carry this burden. It is ok to let go and love yourself. Examine each negative emotion and decide if this is truly how you feel about yourself or did it develop from someone or somewhere else? If it isn’t yours, don’t keep it. How do you feel about your success, job, money, relationships, visible prosperity, appearance…? It is ok to be happy without anyone else cheering for you. You do not need anyone else to love and believe in yourself.

It is also possible to keep the people who you love but release their opinions about you. If your sister is hostile and accusatory, step back and meet her only in ways that she is less problematic. Then, if she unloads on you, let it go. She obviously has her own reasons to dump on her family and friends. That doesn’t make her right. Any person can be managed more positively. Remember to step back and release.

People at work, at your child’s school, in the grocery store… don’t let them define you without you at least deciding if they have a point or not. It is called testing. Test what they have to say about you. Is it true? Ok, maybe they have a point. Is it false? Let it go. Please don’t unleash an angry torrent upon those who you love and deal with frequently. This is not God’s way. Be solemn and appreciative. Either understand their need to alter your life and take their advice or let it go because it is misguided. These are your choices. You must not get up into someone’s face and stand up for yourself. This is not strength. This type of behavior is as misguided as theirs.

You keep your strength more easily when you know your thoughts, opinions and tendencies and resist anyone pulling you out of your comfort. KNOW who you are and stay steady. Be content with yourself and test any changes that you or others wish you to make.

Forcing yourself to belong will only cause heartache. Like who your are and nurture that part of you that seeks spirituality. If you step back from some people, you may also find some new ones to fill your life up again. By knowing yourself and being true to who you want to be will create more opportunities to meet people of like-mind. Communion. Sharing of ideas and faith. You won’t feel so out-of-place if you find some people who believe the same things that you do.

The first step is to release all of that pressure that you feel. Get a cleansing, meditate, try some positive visualization. Shake it off and resist the urge to pick it back up. Imagine someone who starts their day by meditating, praying and asking for Divine guidance. The backpack that was full of rocks yesterday has been cleared of any rocks through this morning self-care practice. Then, this hopeful, excited person spends the rest of the day picking up all of those same rocks and putting them back in their backpack. By the end of the day they are weary and feeling unloved and misunderstood. They lay the backpack at the foot of their bed and fall into a restless sleep. Then they wake up… you guessed it. They cleanse, purify and meditate for this new day.

How sad. The intent of being spiritual and full of grace was outweighed by the habit of carrying around negative thoughts, emotions, opinions and judgments. It is even sadder that at this point in time, you do not cleanse and clear yourself daily. So, instead of unloading that bag of rocks, you simply carry them always. Never putting them down.

Step one is to realize that you carry energy around that is stagnant, dark and clingy. Step two is to cleanse, purify and release that energy daily. Step three is to resist picking up all of that negative energy again. Step four is to allow yourself each new day free from anyone’s attitudes, judgments and opinions. This is how hope is born. Rely on yourself and believe what you believe to be true. Allow you to define who you are and what goals will fulfill your life.

Refuse to carry around someone else’s negative energy. Give yourself the gift of self-love and self-care. Shed any unwanted energy and believe in yourself enough to not carry it around again!

Guilt, shame, and someone else’s unrealistic expectations are not “of God.” True grace has no room for such judgments.

 

No Reason for Poverty

A specific phrase caught your attention in the last post. In your life you either assumed that sacrifice was essential to spirituality or someone has taught you this. Either way it is inaccurate. You may have your exciting, fulfilling and prosperous life and still work for God. In fact, if you have wealth then you are able to be of more help to those in need. Wealth and faith are not exclusive from each other.

Many people in history have committed to poverty as a way of increasing their faith and spirituality. By releasing any needs or desires they only focus upon the work that God wishes to be done. It is this poverty of focus that allows them to avoid feeling any temptation or distraction. There is nothing else in their lives accept the need to help others.

This may still be the chosen path for some people in this life though it is not necessary. You may focus upon your home and family and still be very generous with those in need. It is this solid foundation that will allow you to replace your feelings of lack with more appropriate feelings of bounty. You must always tell yourself that you have everything that you want and need. You are successful and prosperous and you wish to give gifts of love, belonging and health to others. The “belief” that all of your needs being met will help with your charitable intentions.

Now, there seems to be an even stronger emotional response to this topic. You actually prefer to keep your wealth and bounty and only send wishes of health, love and faith to those in need. This is where you have stepped off your path once again. These are the words of ego and selfishness. Everything in life must occur in moderation. Even your faith and spirituality must be moderate. Your tendency to go overboard with things that you want and need does not help you in any measurable way. God does not support greed. If you already have everything that you need, any excesses will be viewed negatively.

You are not asked to suffer but you are asked to be reasonable. Have a comfortable life AND be charitable. Avoid the excesses of greed, selfishness and ego. These character traits are what places blocks between you and God. The neediness of your thinking will constrict the flow of true Divinity and inspiration. It is like having a scratch on your favorite record. The songs will play well until the record player hits the scratch, then the flow of beauty will be disrupted or stopped altogether. This is your intent to be overly compensated for your charitable thinking.

“I will send good wishes to others but I want infinite wealth and prosperity in return.” God does not barter. You must realign with God and good intentions and release any greedy inspiration that you have. If God wishes to provide you with the bounty of love, faith and wealth, that is because you have worked to promote and help others and have not asked for anything in return. The moment you feel you deserve something, the natural flow of the Divine will cease.

What seems to be at play here is immaturity and selfishness. These traits will not raise you up to meet God in Heaven. You will continue to plot your deservedness and still not raise your vibration and spiritual ability. Your game-playing will waste precious time and you will get nowhere. People may play this very game for years expecting something to eventually be different. Why would the Universe respond differently to your immaturity and greed? It won’t. You must find a better perspective and purpose, THEN the response of the Universe will change.

It seems that you have hit an illogical cycle of thinking. “I will continue to be concerned only with my own success yet I will be granted all of the blessings of a spiritual life.” Not even close.

The Law of Attraction will smack you between the eyes and give you only more immaturity and selfishness. Here is your flawed thinking right back to you. Many of you have nearly run the tires off of this illogical cycle. Perhaps this is why you are here? At some point maybe you have realized that some of the things you are doing haven’t brought about the ideal life circumstances that you desire.

So now we are at a standstill. You want absolution but will give none to anyone other than yourself. You insist that God save you because you have a charitable thought but no charitable intentions or actions. You want because you want. Doesn’t this sound immature? It is truly a childlike argument.

You must break this cycle of illogical thinking in order to make some real progress on your chart. Start anywhere. Change your thinking and be genuinely charitable. Don’t just think charitable thoughts but also take action to benefit others. Place your wants and needs into perspective. To improve your vibration and be spiritually successful you must accept that your needs are met and anything that you have that isn’t essential you may gift to another. Holding tightly to any possession creates a feeling of lack. Then, the Universe will fall into alignment and give you lack as well. The emotions and feelings that accompany having all that you need will naturally bring everything that you need. Simply, the Law of Attraction.

Fill your internal dialog with feelings of having enough and create an overflow of bounty. It is this never-ending flow of spiritual wealth that will provide for you and others. Your cup overflows. Replace your greed and ego with the true belief in abundance. God will give you more than enough if you truly give to others. This is a win/win to the Universe. You are provided for and you provide for others. Your generosity continues unless you turn again toward greed and ego.

We went full circle from you believing that poverty is the only way to enter Heaven to finding out that you are the only person you are concerned about. What a ride.

These answers will not change. If you hand out greed and selfishness you get nothing in return. God will not fill those expectations. You are riding that dysfunctional cycle, again. You must release greed, selfishness, ego and feeling entitled. Once your thoughts turn outward and your desire truly is to help those in need, the Universe will provide for you as well. Your cup fills to overflowing and there is plenty for everyone.

Charts, Chapters and Verses

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Stop comparing your life to others. There is no comparison. Many others do not even know that there is an intended life. They are unevolved and unfulfilled. There is good work that goes undone because of their ignorance. Other faithful may try to take up some of the slack but each of you has charted a fairly full life for yourselves. There may not be room to do the duties of anyone else.

Many of you are behind as it is. Committing to the charted life takes awareness, wisdom and knowledge. Some people are more self-centered and desire the captures of an ideal life. There is no real harm in this accept for the work that goes undone for God.

The gap could be closed with group intentions. If they gather together and purposely pray for the work left undone to be known to them and addressed. Life would respond with more clarity. Loose ends would not obscure what people of faith see and do. This would be beneficial overall.

Charts, chapters and verses. It is spelled out and very specific for those who know. It was like writing a play and accounting for every thought and action taken by the actors. Nothing was left to chance. All anyone had to do was remain open to God and follow inspiration. The “charmed” life would have been direct and decisive. Each goal would have been attained and the process would continue on as charted by each person involved.

The damp, dark and heavy environment of earth is enough to block much of your communication with spirit and the Divine. The simplicity of your intended life was made so much more difficult by these conditions. Your direct line of communication suffers from distraction, suppression and unintended avoidance. You do not intend to miss what your life was supposed to be about but you have fallen victim to the challenging environment.

Up until now you have believed that your life was about materialism, leisure and ego. Your awareness that there is a Divine purpose for you has come much later than your self-absorbed goals. Now there is an added distraction which lures you away from spirituality. Then, add your free will into these circumstances and many of you actively resist rejoining your life chart. No glitz, no glamour.

The simple truth is you are intended to see the error of your ways, become emotionally healthy, educate yourself spiritually, embrace faith in God then bring others with you. You help others to heal the same way you were able to heal yourself.

Life has been hard. You may have made some mistakes in decisions made or how you behaved. If you do not see these errors then it is difficult to heal emotionally. You know many people in your own life who have not been able to view their lives objectively. In fact, it may be easier for you to see this in others than for yourself. This is common.

At this time, you are here on this site seeking spiritual guidance. So Our assumption is that you must understand that you don’t know everything or you would like some insider information. We cherish the idea of speaking directly to you. This inspires Us as well. The caveat is the spiritual path is neither the popular one or the easy one. It is more fun to explore emotions, excitement, wealth or other forms of “success.”

We would offer you a different perspective. It is good to find your fun and work for God. They are not mutually exclusive. Your fun must be positive, proactive and productive. No harm to anyone, including yourself, and with the best intentions. We have never asked you to go without, suffer, live in poverty, avoid happiness or be unfulfilled. Perhaps your assumption of living in faith means that you can’t have any fun. This is untrue.

Living with a strong faith in spirit, the Divine and God is actually very comforting and blissful. You naturally resist fear, worry or failure. No illness, mistake, accident, loss or painful experience ever occurs without bringing you something to learn and overcome. The experience may actually be the lesson. It is far more beautiful than you may have imagined. Once you have truly embraced a strong belief in God, you naturally want to share it. Those are your life goals.

Faith is very liberating. You may try anything or help anyone. Perhaps it does not go as planned but you still feel successful because you made the effort in good faith. It was an experience, you learned something and you will make changes the next time you try to help someone again. All positives! Living for God has no downside, ever.

You may say, “Yes, but…” There is no downside when you have the optimal perspective of living for God. Serious disease, horrendous accidents, losing a child, bankruptcy, natural disasters… all have lessons which God wants you to experience. There is always something to learn and to teach. You will embrace this truth once you understand that you are eternal. Your life does not end when you leave this earth no matter how you go or why. Life is 100% about the experiences, learning, growing healthy, finding God, healing others and bringing them to God with you.

Have fun. Laugh. Enjoy what you do. Be fulfilled and work for God. Don’t make it harder than it is.

 

Standing On Your Own

Many of you are having trouble accepting that your current life circumstances are your own responsibility. It seems to make more sense to blame other people, situations or circumstances for  your life.

Even re-reading the above paragraph should hit you that of course your life is your responsibility. What mind warp has occurred to allow you to rest any responsibility upon anything and anyone but yourself? It seems more likely that the dysfunction that created your life perspective is hard at work making you truly believe that you are not at fault. You were taught through years of modeling that blaming anyone but yourself is acceptable. In fact, others in your life are probably blaming you for some things that are also not your responsibility.

Accepting responsibility for your own circumstances is difficult and very lonely. Once you have stood firmly up on your own feet and have accepted that you are the only person who changes you, it is an unfamiliar feeling. Many people become angry when someone tries to get them to accept responsibility. Anger is a coping mechanism. You over react so no one will ever try to impress upon you that you must make changes to your own life. If you blow up in their face, they won’t try again and you may remain blissfully ignorant.

But this is not the way you charted your life. By avoiding any blame you actually miss some important life lessons. Your chart is intended that you find your own strength and accept responsibility for what needs to be changed. Then you work toward further emotional health. You don’t succeed spiritually by not being fully responsible for your actions, intentions and communication.

This still upsets you.

You are having a hard time with this concept. We understand and We will walk you through as much as possible.

One example is growing up with an alcoholic parent. You live with anger, violence, depression, emotional manipulation, money problems, abuse and neglect. Then, as an adult, you choose to overindulge in alcohol. Thus, you bring all those same problems into your own home and family. This no longer is your parent’s fault. You know the dynamic, you understand the emotional turmoil this brings into your home and yet you choose to live your life the same way. You are an adult. You have your own home, family and workplace. You have chosen to recreate the dysfunction of your childhood. No one has forced you to be an alcoholic. It may have happened because of the dysfunction that you knew but now YOU must make different choices. Do the work. Get help and achieve more emotional health and stability for you and your family.

Then what? Your children have likely learned to blame others and rely upon substances in daily life. Now, again, you have been responsible for raising them in this environment and modeling some negative, ineffective coping mechanisms. They will also blame you and everyone but themselves. Then, once they are adults, they must make changes to improve the emotional health and wellbeing of their own family.

The ideal situation would be for emotionally healthy, responsible and spiritual people to partner together and raise some well-adjusted children. You don’t get to this point by blaming others. If you blame others irrationally, your children will also behave in the same manner. Then, you will become angry and frustrated because they will naturally blame you!

It is a cycle. Life is full of cycles. You are destined to experience the same patterns, behaviors and actions until you learn the lessons that were intended. If you don’t learn the lessons and accept responsibility for your actions, you will continue to relive these cycles and never accomplish what you and God intended. No spiritual success because you did not understand that, as an adult, you are responsible for making the needed changes to your life.

This is an important concept. Imagine living your entire life and not reaching any goals that the Divine intended. You’re just here, making ineffective decisions, blaming others and remaining spiritually unsuccessful. An entire life cycle of dysfunction. This should upset you more than accepting responsibility for your own actions.

The anger is real. You have lived your life conditioned to resist any blame. Even your attempts to blame others may be irrational and occasionally comical. You go to great distances to stay irresponsible. This is a path to nowhere.

It is time to start. It is ok to make smaller changes at first. It is important to make the changes last and improve your life continuously. You will find strength in standing on your own. You have decided to make some changes and improve your spiritual and emotional health. This is how you truly find God. You may find God, go to church, pray and share communion with other believers but if you still perpetuate your dysfunction, this isn’t genuine. You would join others who only preach on Sunday and don’t truly live a spiritual life. This is a mockery. We are certain that you know many people who behave in this manner. They try to portray faith but actually just feverishly cover up their dysfunction.

This is not Our intention for you. We would like to remove your false thinking and instead give you genuine, practical and authentic knowledge about God and the Realms of Heaven.

Your resistance to accepting responsibility for your life is not productive. Pushing blame away from you is furthering the dysfunction that you have already lived and learned. There is no purpose to continuing these cycles. No benefits will result. Prepare yourself to live honestly, independently and spiritually. These coping skills of anger, frustration, fleeing, becoming overwhelmed, depression … have been “normal” for you, but now you know the truth. Understand it for what it is.

Do your best to view your life objectively and start making changes. Staying the same is not spiritual success. Pushing back against the truth does not help. Taking steps to being wise and full of faith really needs to start now. It is uncomfortable at first but then you will find strength in accepting responsibility. It is an uncommon trait in today’s world but this is where life truly begins.

Break the cycles that have held you back. They are immature, meaningless and you really can’t hide behind them any longer. A life free of these shackles is a reward in itself. Be eager to experience this.

 

Beyond Boundaries

Sometimes going beyond your comfort level is just what you need to jumpstart your spirituality. Meeting new people and trying new things will open some doors that you may have inadvertently closed. If you are sluggish in completing your chart, this may be one reason why your experiences aren’t coming to you efficiently.

You have heard the saying that the only person that you can change is yourself. This is true. If you refuse to push yourself beyond what is common and comfortable, you will miss some important experiences and possibly some people that were supposed to be in your chart.

By far the most common question for  psychics, mediums, card readers… is about love and finding the perfect partner. I myself have been asked this question much more frequently than any other. The problem is… people want someone perfect. There is no such thing. Every relationship requires adjustment and compromise. Over time you grow together or you grow apart. If you really want to keep this “perfect” relationship then it takes some work.

You have charted basically everything in your life. Some potential partners are missed because you are looking over their shoulder for that “perfect” person. Each time I respond to that one question, the person asking it tunes out. They do not want to do any searching or work at any part of the relationship. They think that finding the right job, partner, home, school… should take no energy. They want everything dropped into their lap. It won’t.

More often you must take some roads that you have not travelled, attend groups or classes that you never tried before. By expecting perfection, real life passes you by. Becoming evolved takes effort and commitment. It isn’t easy and you never get to say, “It’s because of this or that.” Why? Because you are an adult and you must accept responsibility for what you do in your own life. It is no longer your mother/father, the school, the job, an accident, a serious injury, debt… You must make changes to respond and react to what life has been for you. No one ever promised you “perfect.” There would be no learning if things didn’t take effort.

You must be the one who makes changes if what you are currently doing is not positive, proactive and healthy. A bad relationship is exactly that. Abusive relationships must be addressed. Changes are needed in order to grow closer to God. Improving your vibration is necessary. Lifting yourself up is truly an increase in vibration. Negativity, abuse, mistrust, manipulation, conflict, chaos and unhappiness bring you down.

Being successful in life takes work. You are responsible for what needs changing. This is exactly how you wanted it. Incarnating into earth life is a challenge and you were fully aware of this. Now take the time and set some goals. Prioritize what needs to be done. Resist the tendency to want everything ready-made. Any relationship, home, job… needs work. You make it into what you want it to be. Did you really find everything in your life already perfect? No! The same is true with your spirituality. Being stagnant does not improve your knowledge and learning. Following someone else also does not bring about the “you” that you want to be.

Your life is a process. Things change and so do you. Keeping some things current requires you to put in some effort and there is nothing wrong with that. Being stagnant in your everyday life will keep you uninspired. Be sure to try new things. Even trying something just once will bring new energy into your life. You are the one stating that nothing ever changes. Well, what are you doing to mix things up?

New people, places and experiences will allow the Universe to bring some of those missed lessons back to you. Staying in a constant routine leaves little chance for God and others to bless you with improvements, updates and upgrades.

The chance for something purely wonderful and “perfect” to fall into your lap happens when you are on your path, making progress on your chart, being open-minded and available to new experiences. That is part of the “charmed” feeling that you get when you are close to God. Then, it is possible for the miracle of something perfect to find you. All of us here are not at that point in our lives. We all have more work to do. It is very important that you are available for new things and experiences otherwise the Divine will not have any way to drop those blessings upon you!

The fear of change will also block those opportunities. Many people fear that things will change and most assume the change is for the worse. This is so untrue. Change is good and necessary. If there were no change you wouldn’t find the right job, a good partner, a better home, better health and more success both spiritually and monetarily.

Change is that beautiful avenue which brings about everything you expected and asked for. Embrace it. Be available. Open up to many new experiences and resist the urge to keeps things the same. Change is how we become the best of ourselves. God brings opportunities for us to evolve and grow. Once we have our strength and confidence we help others to challenge themselves to be better.

There are many spirit guides and earth guides that you have charted along your path. Are you allowing yourself to find them? If not, how many truly inspiring experiences have you missed? All of this just because you don’t like change. Sadly, change is what will bring you the ability to improve your life and everything that you have in it.

Be strong. Have faith. Embrace what God has sent your way! Don’t miss another moment of your happiness.

The Stories Are True

Our intent is to increase your faith in God. The sightings of the Virgin Mary, Jesus, angels and many other spiritual figures may be very true. These servants of God connect with you in many different ways. Sometimes they appear in a dream, you see a vision, you hear their voice, their name comes up in everyday life or they appear in human-like form.

Their purpose is to support you and bring you closer to God. They may present with healing, premonitions, advice, comfort, news, a departed loved one to give you assurance… Their presence is intended to give you more faith. If they give you good news and it comes into reality, they have proven their existence to you as well as increased your faith in the Divine. You are not expected to find faith without testing it for validity.

You may also have faith but then lose it due to some troubling times or feelings of being abandoned or misunderstood by God. Perhaps you will question the existence of God. Then, these beings will bring you more evidence and reasons to have faith again, perhaps even stronger. They do the bidding of God. You are all of part of God and these beings are no different. They don’t need to be acknowledged individually. They are content to work tirelessly for your soul growth and be One with all Creation. All of Creation is from One Source.

Sightings and apparitions are real evidence for you to accept into your realm of faith. These miracles happen all over the world but you may become aware of this news anyway. There are many visions that have been investigated by the Catholic church and deemed to be real. Many places around the world are well-known for specific sightings. The energy of certain angels may permeate a physical location as well as saints, the Virgin Mary and other spiritual figures alive and passed.

Your test is to be open. Hear the stories and believe that it is possible that it is real. Find more evidence if you like. Read personal accounts or visit the sites yourself. This proof is offered to you to strengthen your faith in God or many other Divine beings. Believe because you KNOW and believe because there is proof.

There are some instances of fraud and perhaps mental illness but there are true sightings, miracles or visitations. These may be just what you are looking for when you ask for proof. It lends credibility to your desire to be fully involved in faith.

Some of you lean more toward science than belief. This is ok too. You may not be convinced by these occurrences but the facts of any investigation may help you to accept that these events may be possible. Being dogmatic about scientific proof will fall short of winning you over. Sometimes you just have to “know” that God is real and there are many conditions around the world that are impacted by Divine energy. Being unavailable to God may be the true tragedy of insisting upon scientific proof.

Dogma is common when discussing spirituality. Many people will need solid proof and personal experience to find faith. This may be a barrier to the beauty and joy of knowing God. If you set up too many barriers and blockages you may miss out on the actual presence of these Divine beings. Also common is being shown a vision, foretelling dream or Divine presence and then convincing yourself that it wasn’t actually real. At the moment it occurred you felt the wash of powerful energy and “knew” you were in the presence of God. There was no other way to explain it. Then… you talk yourself out if it. You eventually lose the feeling of that moment because the earth’s atmosphere is heavy and confining. That it is why they call it faith. Sometimes you believe even though there is no proof that you may offer to others or even yourself.

There is a loneliness in being unavailable to God. You have your requirements that no one may reach and you stand outside of a potentially blissful existence. You live each day wondering what is all of this about? Why go through any of this? Faith is the vehicle which brings you the meaning of life. You are here to fulfill your soul journey. You are not hopelessly disconnected. Your isolation is your insistence on turning away from God. He awaits you as they all do.

This life is one portion of a long journey. You are learning and making progress. You are improving your knowledge of the Divine and rising up to meet God. There is an afterlife but it is truly a soul life for you are eternal. Resist your need to stand outside of the comfort of faith. Find something which helps you to believe. Don’t allow anyone looking for empirical proof talk you out of your purpose for this life. It is ok to “know.” It is good to believe. It is even better to test your faith so you will satisfy your need for knowledge and understanding. At times you may feel like you are standing alone with your faith but this is wholly untrue. You have guides, departed loved ones, angels, saints, animals guides, Jesus, the Virgin Mary and God, intimately with you. You are never alone. Promise.

Seeking others of like mind will help you to grow. You may share with them and they will be available to you. It is possible to find an earth guide as well. This is another human being who you have contracted with in order to learn, teach and experience. Sometimes they are temporarily in your life. Sometimes they are with you till the end. Your family and friends may be earth guides as well as the person who may have caused you the most pain and stress. They may be your greatest teachers and they are also members of your soul group. This is all included in your chart. Even your lapses in faith have been addressed. AND, you becoming aware of sightings, visions and miracles are in there too!

There are times that you charted events to realign yourself with faith. You expected that it is possible to have lost your way. So, some of this proof is exactly what you asked for.