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What If You Don’t Understand?

Good question. We have some new faces in our crowd and the shift in energy is wonderful. Welcome and be loved. I am your “earth guide.” I love you as I love myself and we will grow whole together.

God’s love is unconditional. You have this strength, grace and support even if you feel out of sync. God does not expect you to be perfect. There would be no learning to be done if you were. Mistakes are always placed in perspective. Are you young and independent? Then perhaps some missteps will happen as you grow. Are you more mature? Some mistakes are still expected. Are you elderly and near the end of this earth life? It is possible to make some poor decisions.

No one is perfect. Ever! This is a journey of trial and error.

Many people fear hell and damnation. Some of our new people have this concern as well. Please release your fear of eternal condemnation. No one is ever restricted to the darkness. You may always choose a better way or more positive existence. The problem would be if you believed that you were done learning!

Mistakes of youth are placed in perspective. Mistakes in relationships are expected and also placed in perspective. Even some negative or disruptive behavior is understood if you haven’t yet learned to behave in a positive manner. You are never doomed because of any mistake or misjudgment. You are learning and it is expected. The time to reconsider your life choices is when you have a negative pattern of behavior and you purposely choose to continue this way. You may even choose to become more dark and damaging. It is then that your guides will give you every opportunity to turn your life around.

God, Jesus, angels, saints and guides will never leave your side. YOU are the one who walks away. If you cannot feel their love and presence, you have turned your back. Even in the lower energy levels of the Afterlife, you may always look for God. This is always available to you.

You feel damned because of your own self-doubt, lack of confidence or perhaps restricted religious thinking presented to you in life. God has not damned you. It is possible to release your fears and bathe in the Light. Ask for God to be with you. It is ok to ask for forgiveness but it has already been given. The act of seeking salvation may help you to open your mind to be One with God. This is not God’s requirement but you may feel this is needed. Do whatever you need to be whole, healthy and available to God.

You want to find examples of people who surely went to Hell. This is not necessary. Even Hitler, Sadam Hussein, serial killers, career criminals, pedophiles… pass on into Heaven. Are they in the same realm as Mother Teresa? No. They start in the 2 lower levels. They decide if they will choose to learn and grow closer to God in the Afterlife or if they will continue to breed hate, vengeance and fear. Why would this be accepted in Heaven? Because we are all eternal.

It is difficult to accept that “bad” people are a part of God’s plan. Each life is intended to teach others through experience. You learn to expand your life through positive role models and to learn and distance yourself from negative ones. It is this simple but you choose to be outraged by it. Your desire to learn and grow includes all types of experiences. This is as God intended. We all may say that we have learned mountains of lessons from very great or very egregious people.

Sometimes our greatest teachers in life are the ones who have harmed us the most. This is still God’s Will. Our Father wishes us to learn through negative and positive means. This is a well-rounded approach. You have had many lifetimes in which you were the teacher and others when you were the student. You have taught your loved ones through positive and negative actions even now. This makes sense to you now. It is the human experience. You are here on this site seeking these answers. Are We going to give you only the sugary sweet details? No. We are giving you the truth. All of God’s creation has positive, uplifting events and painful, disruptive ones.

You exist to weather all of this. You sought to be enlightened and guided to salvation. Now that you are here, you are disappointed that absolution is available to everyone. This is not Our intention to make you feel common. You are special and that is why We guided you to this place. We have the answers that you want. In fact, We are still at the very beginning. You are not late.

Release your need to feel that “bad” people need to go to Hell. You have had some times in your life when you felt “bad.” God did not condemn you. Forgiveness is Divine and so are you. It is expected that you learn and understand. These basic concepts will open so many doors for you. We ask you not to judge as We do not judge you. Everyone is worthy and this is a good place to start.

Dogma and rhetoric have no place here. Good begets good. Love creates more love. Your enlightenment will improve your life as well as the lives of those around you. Be the Light that you seek.

Relax and shed your desire to feel above this process. God is humble. You will be given so many more messages of hope, joy and love if you realize that everyone is family. You have much to learn and We have much to teach. Be still and open to peace.


It Is Up To You

Your perspective on life is your responsibility. View the cup half full, see the bright side and manage all contrast with optimism. If you are the downer of the group then you have some changes to make. You are NOT being realistic, you are being negative.

Does it matter to those around if you always introduce the harsh, painful, worst-case scenario details? No. Many people offer advice that you have hope and optimism but prepare for the worst. This may be true unless you have faith in God. With faith, the worst is still manageable.

What is the worst outcome? Returning to Heaven and being reunited with God, departed loved ones and your guides? That doesn’t sound so bad. The struggle is remaining in life and finding ways to cope and be healed. This is not to encourage taking your own life. You are expected to manage all of your experiences and then return home when it is time. Some people believe that making it to the natural end is a success.

Tears are for the living. There is nothing tragic about leaving earth. The pain of loss is ours alone. Yes, you will miss them and it may take a while to overcome your grief but it is not your loved one who is lost. You are lost to the reality that you are eternal and the Other Side is your true home. You exist as a soul and your goal is to mature, find wisdom and be successful in your incarnations.

Earth lives are actually very brief. They don’t seem like it because of the heaviness of our atmosphere. It is this phenomena that makes us feel sluggish and burdened. Our natural excited and elated state is a struggle against the pressure of our environment. Earth is a tough school to experience but this is why we came here. We knew of the negative, dim, troubled energy and chose this to push our learning forward. You are an overachiever. You undoubtedly experienced a previous earth life and yet you decided to try it again. Kudos to you.

Each life is charted by you in agreement with the Divine, your guides and the people who you contract with for life experiences. A talented medium, psychic, card reader… may be able to view your chart and give you some helpful direction. This is not evil. It is God’s way of giving you some support. Jesus was a prophet and a seer. He foretold the future many times.

Try to relax about evil and sin. There are many reasons why you may have darker energy but the “idea” of sin is more profound. If you are trying your best and managing to learn as you go, this is good. If you are intentionally harming others, being dishonest, stealing and being disruptive in the lives of others, this is not good.

Do you make innocent mistakes? Everyone does. Do you go to hell for this? No.

Do you use profane language? Some people do. Do you go to hell for this? Not literally. If you swear, steal, lie and destruct property, your energy is darker than people who do not behave this way. Then, your place of residence in Heaven is in the lower levels. Not Hell so much as a darker and more dismal place.

Do you have sex outside of marriage? Some do. Do you go to hell for this? No. Are you harming anyone by this? If you are both single and not cheating, there is no harm. Are you cheating, forcibly raping someone or intentionally spreading disease? Then your energy is darker. Again, your space in Heaven will be darker as well.

Do you covet what your neighbor has? At times. Do you go to hell for this? No.

These examples are purposely simple. You may have a broad range of behavior that adds up to whether you exist in the Light or in the dark. This will also change as you shift to a higher or lower vibration. Being upbeat and positive aligns you more closely with God and your vibration is naturally brighter. Lower vibrations result from negative behavior and thinking.

This is why meditation is important. By being calm, quiet and centered, you increase your vibration and your behavior will naturally shift to being positive and hopeful. When you make a habit out of meditating you will cause your vibration to be more stable. You will have fewer ups and downs in how you feel.

Prayer will also help you to make positive changes. You may think that God already knows what you think and how you feel. This is true. Prayer will ALLOW God to be a part of your life because you have invited Him in. You have free will. This means that you may decide how to act despite the outcome on your vibration and whether you are being positive or negative. Free will may block much of your expected help. You may ask for angels, Archangels, Jesus or God to help you. If you maintain your own free will, none of these Divine beings will be able to help. Then, likely, you will feel abandoned and alone. You may even feel unworthy of God’s love.

You must ask for help and allow it. This is harder than you may think. If you truly are at the end of your rope and you have “given up,” this surrender may actually allow God to enter and be your Savior. In this state, you have released your free will and have allowed the Divine help you. This instance teaches you to release your free will before you have lost all hope. Why wait so long?

Your life is a continuous response to experiences. There is always room to grow brighter and more positive. The simple truth that you charted this and it is all written will help immensely in your struggle. Your idea that you control the circumstances of your life is untrue. You control your RESPONSES to what you have charted. You believe in God and allow the Divine to be with you or not. This may also be erratic. When things are going smoothly your faith is strong, other times it is not. This does not doom you to darkness but it is time to seek God and the light again.

God is a choice. You have free will and there certainly is God’s Will. Remind yourself of this daily through meditation, prayer and faith. Relax your need to control what God has already set in motion. Your response to life is when you choose to be positive, uplifting, supportive and humble.

Believe In Yourself…


Believe in yourself as much as you believe in God.

Despite the daily quest to grow closer to God, your true purpose may still be derailed. Your intent to do your best may be overshadowed by some inaccurate thinking that you may have. You are worthy of love just as anyone else is. You tend to put yourself down or undermine your own confidence. The reasons for this habit are wholly inaccurate. You may feel like you are being modest but this thinking is not promoting your relationship with God, the Universe and spirit.

Your daily activities must include many things. This promotes a balance in your life that is necessary for spiritual growth.

Have faith in God. There is a purpose for this life and you are mistaken when you believe that you make errors. Each experience is intended to teach you. Whether you feel successful or not you are making progress in your chart. By releasing your need to label something right or wrong will improve this process.

Remember to allow yourself the space to make improvements. Getting something just right may take a few tries but it will still get the job done. The cycles of learning that you may have recognized in your life are leading you to a specific outcome. The lessons themselves do not matter as much as the overall shift in your maturity, wisdom and grace.

Do your best to accept all of your experiences and pray for the intended learning. Give thanks for the process and let the Universe know you are being objective and you are ready for more. It is this eagerness that will realign you with the Universe to bring everything to you more quickly. If you feel stale and sluggish, this boost will signal your readiness for more. This flow toward you will give you a sense of purpose and success. You will reach some spiritual goals and this may make you feel better about your current circumstances.

One “success” will build upon another, but this will only continue if your perspective remains open and hopeful. If you start to measure and complain again, your growth will slow down. Stay positive even if things are not so warm and cozy. The most difficult lessons are likely painful and profound. This is the contrast that you need to keep choosing God and a higher purpose.

Believe in your own strength. All experiences are manageable if you allow them to be. This is no easy task. People die, have tragic accidents, are struck with harsh diseases, lose their job, get divorced… The moment you tell yourself that you cannot get through this is the very same moment that you will not. If you give up, everything that you endure will seem hopeless and you will feel helpless. It will feel like life happens to you. This is not optimal. You are a necessary part of your life. To be overcome and to give up is not having faith.

To believe in yourself as much as you believe in God is very profound. You are perfect in the very state that you now exist. You are in the process of learning and making changes to your earth life. There are things that you have yet to learn and that is why you are here. To believe in only these four walls is a tragedy. You have the power to heal, love, create, promote, support, honor and be God in human form. No one takes this away from you if you haven’t first given it up.

You may wonder how you may view tragedy and still see God? It is a lesson which has many purposes. You may still grieve and be sad but then there will come a time to place all of this into perspective. If it is a personal loss or death, send love. If it is a community loss or tragedy, send love. If it is a global loss or monumental event, send love. You literally are not here on earth to stop all bad things from happening. Have an influence on matters if you can, but then place the rest in perspective. God provides you with the experience which propels you to grow. You are continuously being pushed off that fence. You won’t reach the heights of a spiritual life by sitting on the fence. You may see painful events and suffer great loss, but this is your time to choose God all over again.

This cycle will continue in your life because people get hurt, sick, have accidents and some die. When you have reached the point where you see God at the same time as you become aware of the event, you have made great strides in your learning. You cut through the pain, sorrow, anger and despair and seek God for reassurance and comfort. You understand that this is a learning experience and you open to God and receive the lessons. Then, you give thanks that you were able to weather the storm and not lose your faith.

We all suffer some bad things. It may be an accident, illness, depression, trouble with the law, bankruptcy, divorce… These are teaching us as well as those around us. You are a part of a soul group. You came here with a select number of people to experience life together. It is as God had intended and you are living up to your commitments that you made with them. Life is many different things, but it is always temporary. Learn, teach and go home.




You Want More Examples…

You have expressed a desire for more examples of responding to life circumstances in the proper, soul-directed way. You must change your perspective and release your need to be hurt, worried or resentful.

You are an older child in a broken family. Your parent restarts a new family with another partner. You recognize that your younger siblings are being favored over you and your needs are not being met. Your positive response will depend upon your age.

  1. Watch your life unfold and be as objective as possible. Babies and younger children do need more attention.
  2. Bring your concern to your parent and try your best to accept their response, hoping they are positive and provide you with the truth.
  3. They may become defensive. This is common and just because they are an adult does not mean they do not make mistakes. Resist bringing up your perceived unfairness again to save yourself from more of your parent’s anger, berating and potential to be blamed for the circumstances unfairly.
  4. Understand that this is your life and you have much to learn from this difficult situation. Rather than become sullen and negative, join the family as it is and be hopeful that you will all grow together.
  5. Find your position in life and embrace being an older sibling who responds with love and understanding.
  6. People are not perfect but you may still live your life with true character. You must choose to be independent, productive and successful. Your parents may behave with limited truth and character but instead of behaving like them you may be a role model for your younger siblings and the community.
  7. Realize that no one owes you happiness. You must find it in and among all of your life experiences. Once you become an adult, YOU are responsible for you.
  8. Forgive everyone involved and give thanks for the difficult lessons that you learned.
  9. Be a mentor. Be a good parent. Be empathetic to those who have had difficult childhoods or people who have parented with favoritism and conflict.
  10. Be God, for God.

Your mother is acutely ill. You have siblings but it seems that no one is stepping forward to help you with her demanding care. You work full time and have a family of your own. You have noticed that stress has taken a toll on your emotional and physical health.

You will not be able to step away from your mother with a good conscience. If you are not there for her, no one is. Make time to visit with your siblings and attempt to make a care schedule so that everyone is responsible for some of her care. Try to confirm their involvement. If they do not follow through with their commitment, your mother will miss appointments or not have everything that she needs.

Stay positive. If no one else will offer help and if you do it, at least you know it has been done.  You may want to give up and do it all yourself, but your siblings’ bad behavior will exclude them from her care, which is likely what they want.

You may also be responsible for your mother and her treatment and a family member may barge in and try to make important decisions without having any prior knowledge about her care. Do you back up and allow them to participate? Do you remain responsible? Either way you must live with your decision. If you back out and her care goes sideways, you must realize that bad decisions were made and you were not a party to it. Release any guilt you may feel because you chose to become less involved.

If you stay responsible, you may be a target for friends and family who feel they know more about what should or shouldn’t be done for her. You will accrue the blame for things that go wrong or mistakes in decision-making. You must own your decision and release any guilt that others may push upon you. You were the one that was there for her and you did your best. There also could be a combination of all possibilities. Various people are involved and her care depends upon the decisions made by different people.

It is also possible that YOU wish to remain uninvolved in your mother’s care and do things to stay out of it. You have decided that you don’t want any “burden.” You may butt in to her care with unwanted advice or you may stay completely uninvolved.

The experience of your mother being ill is a teaching tool for you and all of your family members. Being open to conflict and contrast will bring you the best chances for learning your intended lessons. God would have you respond in positive and proactive ways. None of your loved ones are ever a burden.

  1. A journal of care is started and all of her medications, medical appointments and anything significant are documented. No one starts any conflict because each of you is making decisions to the best of your ability. You are supportive of one another and give each other respite when needed. Your mother receives good care and you and your family members are attentive to her and each other.
  2. Forgiveness is necessary. You need to forgive yourself for your own perception of what mistakes you may have made. Your family members must be forgiven for being inappropriately involved, completely uninvolved and/or being emotionally unavailable.
  3. Many lessons are learned. You may step forward and assist others when they are met with taking care of an older parent or loved one. You will understand all sides of the possible continuum. They may wish to be very involved, somewhat involved or completely absent from care.
  4. Part of your learning is facing some issues you may have about your mother, your relationship with her and your lack of forgiveness and understanding for the mistakes that she made. You have chosen to take the higher road and be attentive to her while releasing your need to be acknowledged regarding ways in which she may have mistreated or neglected you. She is human and fallible.
  5. You understand her limitations and realize that you are less than perfect as well. If she had choices to make all over again, she may have done things differently. Or, you realize that she likely would make the same mistakes in your life but you are grateful for the chance to learn.
  6. You accept that taking care of elderly, sick or disabled loved ones requires a lot of time and attention. You release your feelings of self-pity and become responsible and reliable. You make adjustments to your own life and try to minimize the disruption to your own spouse and children. Your honor comes from being a soldier of God and fully capable of helping those in need. Others see your strength and decide to carry on in your absence.
  7. Your own children learn by example. They stand strong in the world and meet challenges with grace. Loved ones need their attention and they are happy to contribute. They do not demean themselves or the person in need. They know that God is in the details and they are eager to learn from contrast and experience.
  8. You realize that it is truly your feelings of self-pity that actually creates your negative attitude and struggle. If you were to embrace your responsibilities you would only find strength, endurance and character.
  9. If you had a disabled child, the responsibility of their care would be automatic. The care of loved ones may also be implied and understood. The family and extended family are a soul group. You each agreed to present on earth to meet these challenges together. Being petty and childish was not charted or expected.
  10. Be God, for God.


Your Soul Journey

You were never promised that this journey would be easy. If it weren’t challenging you would learn very little. You currently don’t realize how much you stand in your own way. It is your fear, anxiety, emotional pain and even vengeance that blocks your forward progress.

If you were able to look at just the lesson and relieve yourself of the baggage of hurt, turmoil and judgment, you would move so much faster. Why are you always holding your breath? Life will not impact you if you accept and absorb it. Steadying yourself for damage will always bring you damage. It is your perspective that really needs to change.

An example is injury or abuse in childhood.

  1. The lesson is to learn how to value yourself and not accept the hurtful opinion of someone else. Is there some truth to their words? Then, make changes. Are they purposely hurtful? Let it go.
  2. Avoid harming your own children in such a way.
  3. Be able to speak to others who have experienced this same turmoil.
  4. Be able to speak to those who have caused this turmoil in the lives of their own children.
  5. Be able to forgive your own harmful adults and the people who have harmed their own loved ones.
  6. Give it all to God.

You see that there is no place for permanent injury, vengeance or wreaking havoc on your own children’s lives. These are all positive, proactive steps. God lives in each of these responses.

Your growth is intended to be stable, secure and grounded. You are surrounded by God and you behave as God. Acting out is not your way.

It matters not how your ancestors lived and behaved unless you are able to learn positive, uplifting qualities from them. You don’t “owe” anyone and retribution is not for you to serve. If you were taught anger or depression, you must do the work and learn tolerance and forgiveness.

If you cry and admonish your life every day, then you are doing something wrong. Everything is a lesson and an experience. It is like doing assignments when you were in school. You were given the experience and you responded. You were able to give an enlightened, mature response and received a passing grade. You submitted an immature, self-focused response and you did not pass and would be given the same type of experience again. If you still were unable to grow and learn from the experience, it would be a repeated cycle in your life until you reacted differently.

Some people never pass on certain goals. You see them all the time in your every day life. They choose the same partners, lose money in the same ways, suffer similar injuries, have tense relationships with the same people… They have not changed their perspective and continue to repeat the same circumstances. They may have had lofty, spiritual goals for this life but they were not able to overcome some basic stuff. A lot was left undone. They would likely have to reincarnate again and tackle the same goals.

This cycle has claimed many of you. Even now, as We attempt to break you free of dogma and self-serving behavior, you still cling to ineffective and unproductive behavior. We explain the steps to achieve a spiritually successful life in simple terms and you cling to what you feel, need and want. The idea of letting go of all of the repetitious cycles in your life is unnerving and scary. You feel you NEED all of the blockages just to get through a day.

The successful approach to life is to free yourself of expectations and ALLOW God and spirit to guide you. Imagine walking through life with two angels by your side. Are each of your responses to conflict and contrast something that these angels would accept as part of your journey to enlightenment? If you gossip at work, demean your child, steal money from aging adults… would these angels condone it? Are you on the right track? No.

The boundaries between good/bad, positive/negative and proactive/disruptive are very clear. You are not able to say you don’t understand the differences with your responses and responses condoned by angels, God and spirit. No one is buying this.

Meet each day with the intent of no do-overs. Be positive and proactive all day long. Meet each challenge and learn the lessons. Be able to spot your cycles and put an end to them. By living in the light you will be given more light. Along with this majestic energy comes your actual life goals. Nothing will bring you down because it was never intended to do so. It is all intended to teach you.

Relax and build your life within the light. Stop bracing for a collision because what happens to you is intended to happen. You asked for each experience so you may learn the lessons. Each life has a different roadmap of experiences. Being stuck in a rut means that you may be learning the same lessons over and over again. You already have these experiences from another life but through fear you keep relearning the same stuff. Rather than standing tall and meeting the world head on, you stoop and gaze at the ground shrouded in relearning things so far beneath your actual soul age. Why even be here if you want to duck out on the real intent of this life?

You are strong, spiritual, enlightened and destined to make some important progress in your own life and those of your loved ones as well. You are here to make an impact and bring about astonishing change. You wanted to be here to teach love, understanding and forgiveness.

This journey is not disguised by menial, petty activity. Shake off the dogma and gain access to reform, redemption, and self-actualization. Be the light that you seek and refuse to be limited by things that you have already learned. There is a joy in life that God has given to each of you. Once you have released the fear and relaxed your white-knuckled grip, you will find it and be bathed in the glory.

Then, if you begin to repeat those meaningless cycles, be able to recognize this and again push to find the glory in each day and quest for your true goals. You came here to earth to matter and be productive. Every lesson is to be met, embraced and learned from. Then, these lessons build one upon the other and you will be able to meet God in heaven.

The stairway you have been building leads nowhere and you have spent valuable time building and rebuilding it. Do not let this be your legacy. Embrace your path and be who you intended to be. You will always have Our love. God will support and embrace you still. The difference is you will live genuine, honest and ambitious. No more dark and deceptive behavior. You’re only hurting yourself. It is Our goal to show you the way.

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My aunt passed on June 6th and she visited me this Saturday. That was fast but I am assured this was because she was ready to transition back to the Other Side. Today’s post is from her.

This is good advice to family, friends and loved ones, which includes you!

  1. Look for the purpose of your tears. There are lessons to be learned behind sadness, sorrow and even joy. You experience these emotions for specific reasons and if you don’t seek those reasons you will have learned nothing.
  2. Be prepared for things to happen. Set roots and be strong. Don’t just loosely follow along. If you don’t withstand any impact, who you are will be too vulnerable to your life, experiences and environment.
  3. Everything is ok. Be reassured that your life happens as expected. You are simultaneously learning and in control. There really is nothing that occurs haphazardly.
  4. Hope- it all works out. This is what life is.
  5. You give too much of yourself away. Somehow you diminish who you are in order to be subservient to others. There is no need for this. Keep your strength and lead rather than bow down.
  6. Help others and expect help when you need it. Don’t identify your needs and who will come through for you. Simply allow the universe to bring you help from many different sources.
  7. Don’t hold desperately to what you have. This is the surest way to lose it. Hold on loosely and expect to have everything you need. If you do lose something it is because you will be given something greater.
  8. Live off part of your income and set some aside.
  9. You are a part of many human chains for many purposes. You tend to limit who you are and what you are capable of. Open up rather than pinpoint your focus. You are needed in many more areas than what you are currently aware of.
  10. Keep love in your heart. Even when you are hurt or ashamed, be kind and forgiving.
  11. Miracles happen all of the time but you have to sensitive to the possibilities. Most of them are small and seemingly insignificant yet essential to the world. Expecting giant, broad-sweeping miracles will seldom be answered.
  12. Carry your own weight for as long as you can.
  13. Suffer losses and be sensitive to it but regroup quickly. You gather strength through adversity. By meeting your challenges and working through them, you gain valuable life experience and knowledge. No loss should be suffered without learning from it.
  14. Save “enough” but still live a fulfilling life.
  15. Give yourself an “out” when people intend upon exhausting you.
  16. Always share what you have more than enough of.
  17. People will bring you down if you let them.
  18. Share your beliefs with those who need something to believe in.
  19. Energy is fluid. Be sensitive to the good times and the bad, it is all a part of the process. Each type of lesson is important to learn.
  20. Travel is ok. But, invest more of your energy in “home.”
  21. Relax and celebrate often enough to release your unhappiness. If you never let your guard down, joy will be lost to you as well.
  22. Healing others brings healing to you.
  23. Sometimes turning the key is the most stressful part of opening a new door. There may be joy and love inside and fret was wasted.


Why do we suffer from these horrific events like the club attack in Orlando? It is intended to bring us all together as a global community. This is more about empathy and understanding than fear or anger. In order to properly respond to this tragedy you must lose your judgment that you hold against others.

The victims are human. They are sons, daughters, parents, children and friends. What they are not is deserving of this horror. It is similar to the HIV/AIDS epidemic of years past. Some people actually believed that people who were “queer” deserved a painful death and it was God’s way of cleansing them from the earth. Do you recall this mindset?

This prejudice crossed all boundaries of wealth, gender and even sexual orientation since some contracted HIV through dirty needles. Your view on HIV/AIDS when you first became aware of the disease may be vastly different compared to how you feel about the same circumstances now. Have you discovered some much-needed empathy? Has your life and possibly the lives of your friends and family been touched by loving someone who is gay? Whatever disdain or animosity may be turned around to love and understanding.

It is a process to shift our global consciousness about any one topic. Perhaps it takes a few generations. What these events bring to us is a firm push toward benevolence. Resist your tendency for to speak in terms of US and THEM. Each human deserves certain essential rights and everyone needs love and understanding. God pushes our acceptance of certain circumstances by ensuring we are impacted by them.

This is only one aspect of humanity that needs more forward thinking. Remember in the past when you had no knowledge of cancer, heart disease or Parkinson’s Disease. Since then you have had someone who was challenged by one of these conditions. Through time, understanding and experience you have more knowledge now. The diagnosis of yourself or loved ones lacks the overwhelming feelings that you used to have. You have matured and grown more confident through experience.

Another example of expanding the global consciousness is related to global warming. In the past many people questioned the validity of such claims. They felt it was rhetoric or sensationalism. Over time we have seen more complications related to climate. We are beginning to understand what is happening and what the causes are. We are far from being unanimous in our belief that some irreparable damages are occurring to our plant and animal life. The water levels are rising, the polar ice caps are shrinking and the climates are shifting. After more time a greater portion of the population will accept this concept and take steps to reverse some changes.

These shifts in wisdom, empathy and maturity take time. Your first impression of the events in Orlando were likely the most accurate. You felt sorrow and shock as people lost their lives. Did you stop to be critical of their lifestyle or did you simply grieve? An angry, violent person took many lives because of what may be negative, ignorant and prejudice beliefs. We must look at his need to judge and condemn as something we all need to let go of. He was not right and our thinking which may mirror his, to some extent, is also not right. Even the seeds of hate are inexcusable.

You wonder why a soul would come to earth and leave in a tragic manner. These souls are evolved. They know many lifetimes of learning and they believed they were ready to be a part of something greater than themselves. They are eons ahead of us. They came into this life to teach the rest of us through diversity. They were someone’s child. They had hopes and dreams. They had goals in life. It was part of their responsibility to be loving, supportive and irreplaceable in all of our lives. If we did not love each of them then their display of sacrifice would mean less. At some point they realized that they had different preferences than the larger society. Then, they had to carry on and become self-actualized knowing that many in the world around them did not understand or accept them. They were the banner carriers of being your true self.

Each family has been touched by loving someone who is gay. This beautiful soul chose this difficult journey. They decided to be their true self and celebrate their joy. The varying degrees of conflict and adversity were individual to each of them. Some suffered more animosity than others, but each of them chose this path and endured. They arrived at the point at which they would teach the world about unconditional love.

Many lives were lost but we are able to learn by knowing them. They were human, just like us. We all are someone’s child, parent, sibling, friend… Each life matters. We wanted to learn about love and acceptance. They stepped up to teach us and bring us closer to God.

What Would Help


What will help you to find ascension more attractive than self-guided materialism? Here are some suggestions. Remember that everything We advise is to be taken in moderation. Make smaller steps in order to maintain the changes rather than overwhelm yourself and lose your progress.

  1. Independence is essential. You must be able to walk a path that many of your close family and friends are not taking. It may be helpful to change one portion of your life toward spiritual gains and keep your ties to loved ones intact. Read books, visit websites, join group which promote spiritual development. You may be able to keep your current job, maintain your close relationships and minimize calling unnecessary attention to yourself while you align with your soul and begin to complete your chart.
  2. Pray daily. Communication is a two-way process. The more you speak to your Creator the more likely you are to hear God and spirit speak, sense spiritual help, recognize synchronicity and feel compelled by something greater than you. If you don’t open to God there is little chance that the grace of spiritual success will happen for you. There is a softness about prayer that will replace many of those walls that you have erected out of fear, anger or depression. It will become more like talking to your best friend and confidante.
  3. Faith is very important. It is a “knowing” that may often seem indescribable. You know that God is with you. You understand that you have a greater purpose. Your life will become more open and loving. You will accept that you have much to learn without question. The synchronicity and flow will make undeniable sense and you will expect more of your intended experiences to teach you what you need to know. Faith is comfort, contentment and a sense of belonging. You will resist asking, “Why me?” “What did I do to deserve this?” “Why is this happening to me?” Instead you will say, “Yes, I accept this experience and I will do my best to understand the lessons I am intended to learn. Thank you for your love and guidance.”
  4. Empathy is a good way to accept the trials of those around you. You are expected to learn from your own experiences as well as those of the people around you. It would be unreasonable for you to learn everything personally. Instead, We encourage you recognize some occurrences in the lives of your loved ones, the people in your local community, as well as those in your global community. You are a portion of the global energy and learning from the experiences of others will add volumes to your own ascension.
  5. Seek communion with others of like-mind. You will find companionship, support, ideas and a vast amount of inspiration. You are not alone in your desire to find God and return to the world consciousness from where you came. If your spiritual journey is just beginning, you will find others new to this evolution and mentors who will help to guide your efforts. If you have been on this journey for a while you will find others who have also travelled a long time and you will share experiences with them. Humans are social beings. God created you to share your lives and make progress together. Many spiritual gains are increased when it involves a group. The combined energy increases exponentially. Much will be done in a positive, proactive, group setting.
  6. Be more comfortable with your faith and belief in God. Are you worried that your loved ones will not be accepting of your faith? Will someone ridicule you? If this is possible it is acceptable to praise God in private. Your inner dialog may easily be about faith, acceptance, forgiveness, healing and unconditional love. Increased faith brings greater strength, wisdom and maturity. You will be less emotional. You will find stability to weather conflict. Be “One With God” and represent strength and confidence that others may not know.
  7. Recognize when relationships and circumstances are having a negative effect on you. Creating distance from unhealthy things is a good start. You may have undeniable connections that you must maintain but it is possible for you to improve your soul-health and keep some marginal relationships. The key is to focus more on your spiritual growth and care less about what these darker energy people or circumstances mean to you. The more you grow into the light, the less these troubling interactions will feel acceptable to you. You will naturally seek people who are positive and hopeful. It is true that you decide how people treat you. If they are disrespectful you may choose to have less contact with them. You may suggest they approach you with more positivity so that they will know what behavior you find unacceptable. If someone is truly negative with darker energy, they may walk away from you because you have changed the way that they are allowed to treat you. Some relationships are unavoidable, especially with family. This is an instance when you would value their opinion less in order to promote your own good emotional and physical health.
  8. Find your Zen. Dwelling in the past or future may derail your progress. Being “in the moment” will cut through a lot of distractions. You’ll find that your present life is where much of the changes will happen simply because you will allow them. You won’t be pushing into the past or future and your “now” will be guided by a stronger connection to God and spirit. Looking forward will be unnecessary since your intended life will flow to you with grace. Looking back is only helpful to learn from your mistakes so you won’t repeat them. Then, let it go. This release will support a forgiving attitude since you have learned from your past experiences and it was all necessary. Your “now” may be genuine if you let go of all attachments and find it positive to just “be.”
  9. Get involved with positive, uplifting causes. There are a multitude of opportunities to make a positive impact. Be honest and caring. Do not seek any recognition. Be content to do your best and make something better.
  10. Become introspective and realize your tendency to be dishonest, manipulative, unfair or overly emotional. Make some changes over time. Do your best to accept constructive input. Being defensive will limit the amount of factual information you will have access to. No one is perfect. There are some positive and proactive changes you may make without anyone else’s involvement. Improve your life and behavior just because it is what God would have you do. Each day may be an homage to God and spirit by increasing the light you posses and the light you send into the universe. Be that bright, helpful, industrious person that everyone wants to be around.

The Selfish Slip

You all slip from time to time. You try to make changes and for some reason you either switch right back or slip at least part of the way. This is expected and understandable. We wish to provide you with more information because the more you know, the more informed you are, the better your decisions.

You seek pleasure whether spending excessively, living with few restrictions, lower expectations for yourself, being irresponsible or chasing the dollar with little concern for your soul chart. You find it hard to keep yourself accountable for spiritual growth and fulfilling your agreement with God.

Your current idea of pleasure has very little to do with the feelings of spiritual success We are promoting. The guidelines are different, the goals are different and the outcomes are vastly different. Spiritual success is very exciting as well but you have a habit of seeking the usual avenues of what you have determined “feels good.”

Spiritually advanced people also have fun, do exciting things, meet enjoyable people, travel to wonderful destinations and develop positive relationships. It may be different but it is not without its rewards.

You must give this evolved lifestyle a try. Once you begin to make progress you will also feel the pleasure of success and the joy of accomplishment. The major difference is that this kind of success directly contributes to soul growth and self-actualization. The more evolved you become, the more progress you make in your spiritual growth. It IS feeling safe, secure, motivated, content and accomplished.

Financial success may also be available as well. The goal isn’t making money but it may be a pleasant outcome. Shift your goals from money to ascension and make sure the Universe knows you also need to make a living. Everything flows. There will be fewer highs and lows. Emotional stability feels good and gives you the added foundation to reach your goals.

Alcohol and drugs diminish your connection to God. You stop maturing at the age you began to use substances to manage stress, emotions or as your only way to socialize. These substances will damage your body and create multiple medical conditions. When your Dr. states that your illness is due to alcohol abuse or certain types of drug abuse, you may want to be in denial. You would rather think that these substances have no negative affect upon you.

Overeating and fatty foods will also diminish your connection. The fats and sugar will slow down your body and cloud your ability to function effectively. Food is also addictive and will create and contribute to illness and disease. Added weight impacts your overall health as well.

Promiscuity will also contribute to illness and disease. You will also suffer emotionally through multiple relationships, being codependent, being abused or abusive, feelings of worthlessness, depression and possibly getting a bad reputation. Some things may “feel good” but they are very destructive to your overall health and well-being.

You must live within your means. To overspend, neglect to follow through with your financial obligations, file for bankruptcy AND leaving unpaid debts for your heirs is unacceptable. God wishes you to be honest and responsible. This is living in the light and striving to do better. If you are in the habit of overextending your credit and shortchanging others, this is dishonest and displays darker energy. By manipulating your own or the finances of others you are being disrespectful. God expects you to attempt to do better as time goes by. It is far easier to accept some financial troubles early in life as long as you learn from your mistakes and try to make amends.

These are but a few examples of ways that you make a slip. You may fully realize your intent and wish not to improve your energy and habits. There are also times when you don’t realize that you are coping ineffectively. This may be time to seek the advice of others. Perhaps once you are aware of your tendency to slip you will make more effort to improve. Living honestly involves many things. Ignoring some of your worst habits will not get you the spiritual growth that you seek.

We encourage you to “be good” and “do good.” If you are unable to fully comprehend this advice it is probably time to develop some honesty, empathy, being conscientious and a desire to make your life better as well as the lives of those around you. It is very difficult to be selfish when you are busy being thoughtful and considerate.

Sending light into the universe is the best way to receive it!


The Evolution of Energy

Energy may be a physical manifestation. You may recognize that being near certain people will give you a sense or feeling. They make you feel good or not so hot. This is energy emanating from each person. You may also know someone and can sense when they are angry, happy or excited. Many times this is by looking at them but it also may be noticeable by feeling the energy that they cast off.

You are amazed by spirit being able to manifest orbs of light. This same phenomenon may be responsible for the effects that you feel when someone sends you energy or you produce your own energy with a positive or negative origin. There are many instances that this sensation of energy will either help or hinder you.

  1. Pain or discomfort will produce a negative sensation around you. You may feel perfectly fine everywhere else but your lower back. It is this area that energy healers will sense and be drawn to. A healer has intuition which will guide them to the affected areas of your physical being.
  2. Anger will also send a signal outward. Sensitive people will pick up on it and approach you to see if they can help or they will run the other way. This emotion may fill a room. People who are angry or depressed may fill their environment with the same dark and dismal energy. If you spend any amount of time in their location, your mood will also suffer. This person may  also complain of aches and pains and you may begin to feel the same ailments.
  3. People may also send fear out into the area around them. If they are upset or uncomfortable others in their environment may also become upset. The person responding to the bad energy may not actually know why they are so nervous or fearful.
  4. Sometimes a person may actually send energy to you. This is ok if they love and appreciate you but not so positive if they are angry at you. Their energy may feel very real to you. You may begin to feel irritated, grumpy or ill. If they are staring at your back in anger you may begin to get back ache, perhaps a headache at the base of your skull like a stress headache or any other general malaise of your posterior. Once the person is gone, your symptoms will likely be relieved.
  5. Energy may also get stuck in or around an object. Perhaps a worrisome person has sold some personal items. People begin to feel anxiety after they have taken ownership of one or more of the objects. There may be no sense of reason to why someone feels so unsettled. Some people may know to cleanse or clear an object of any energy prior to bringing it into their home or environment. These items may be nondescript but they also may be highly significant such as a wedding dress, inherited jewelry or a favorite chair.
  6. Sometimes an illness or injury may be created by thoughts or actions. If you tell yourself that you have a broken heart since a relationship ended, you may actually sense some shortness of breath, perspiration and/or pressure in your chest. If you persist with this thought, an actual cardiac condition may develop. This is the Law of Attraction. Do you feel like you carry the load for yourself and many others? You may develop back pain or a back injury. Is someone a pain in your neck? Yes, this is something that may be created by continuous, repeated thoughts or verbalizing this sentiment often. The Universe gives you what you ask for and the product of your repeated thinking.
  7. The best news is that others may also heal you and send you pleasant, loving thoughts. Have you heard of a Prayer List? Many people may gather and send the same wish or blessing to people. They are in agreement to focus upon certain people for specific assistance. The power of prayer will grow exponentially when many people are involved. The energy grows greater and carries more impact. You may be uncomfortable with the word prayer but you may call it what you wish. It is a blessing, wish, hope or any other word which suits you. You don’t have to attend church in order to pray.
  8. Healers may sense what pain or injury you are suffering from. They may do a body scan of you and send their healing to areas that need support or healing. They do not need to be in your presence. This type of healing may be done from anywhere in the world. It is called remote healing. This form of energy may be as successful as a hands-on healing.
  9. People who work well with energy know that many different things may be possible. Some will shield their vehicle while travelling so they are not stopped by the police. Others may block an unfamiliar dog from approaching them and their vulnerable pet by building an “energy” wall around themselves. Some people will enter a room before a party and bring the colors up to bright and vibrant so that everyone has a good time. Students may surround themselves in white light while taking a test to block any distractions.
  10. While enlightened people may use energy to boost and heal others, there are darker humans that will hurt, injure or cause illness. Daily self-care includes protecting yourself from these hurtful people. Surround yourself in white light and keep your mood, energy and behavior positive. Many delightful and enjoyable things will come to you more easily. With daily communication with God and your guides, everything that you want and need will flow to you.

What you send out into the universe is what you will get back! Be that enlightened soul who sends love and healing to all others. Resist sending dark energy to anyone and also be reminded to recognize any dark energy that you may have received or gathered. Always be in the LIGHT!