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The Blessed Journey Within

Finding God does not take a trip of a thousand footsteps. You merely have to look inside to find HIM.

Why do you feel that faith is something that you find somewhere? Your soul has all of the necessary information on God and life that you will ever need. Looking outside of yourself may be a deterrent to finding those “truths” that you know exist.

You don’t live life inside of yourself. This would accomplish nothing. You must balance what happens around you and what is in your soul. To initially find your faith you must touch upon it where it resides in your God Center. This is in your solar plexus or the area behind the tip of your sternum.

Often advice comes suggesting you follow your heart or what you have determined to be factual in your mind. These two energy centers may not give you the most accurate information. Emotions cloud much of the information that spirit may provide to you. It is this fact that skews your guidance.

Emotions will keep you actively involved in negative loops of thinking and behavior. If you are in an abusive relationship will you leave and get safe if you follow your heart? No. You will likely stay because you love that person. You love them enough to keep forgiving them over and over again. What does your mind say about this? Whatever you choose to tell yourself. Your self-talk may be keeping you in this relationship as well. “I love him, he will change, and she made a promise this time… I know she will change for me.” Either your heart or your mind has not provided you with truthful information.

You will be chasing emotions for the rest of your life but this will not get you anywhere. The truth is in your God Center. Touch your fingers to the lower portion of your sternum. Be still and meditative if possible. Find that truth that is there. To know you have successfully made a connection to your true self you will feel a sense of calm and knowing.

This knowledge is based in truth so there is no emotion attached to it. This is also a good state to be mindful. In this inner connection you find truth and stability that you may have not known before. Emotion makes you run here or there, become upset with what is and mood swings from euphoria to desolation. This is not spiritual health. This is being a slave to your emotions.

Have you found that you haven’t made any real progress by following your emotions? If you make decisions by what mood you are in, there is no authentic motivation. These decisions may leave you feeling empty, lost or alone. You may also feel like you never get ahead. It may be like climbing a mountain of fine sand. You have images of never reaching the top.

Your chart is in your God Center. Your guides and God are there too.

If you find your mind whirls with chatter, who are you actually listening to? Most of the time it is your own inner voice. Occasionally it is a guide or other Divine being. Sometimes it is a ghost or earthbound spirit who offers you useless or upsetting information. There are darker beings that may invade your mind but that would take a skilled seer to discover this. NEVER go to someone who has no training or background in dealing with attachments or nefarious spirits. This will only deepen your struggles.

Information given to you that is frightening is not a spirit guide. Genuine guidance from spirit guides is matter-of-fact. They are verbally blunt and expressionless. This emotionless exchange is true. You always have to remember how you felt the moment you received the information. Why? Because you will add emotion, fear, excitement, dread, hopelessness… It may be helpful to write it down so when your mind or heart begins to add layers of nonsensical information you may reconnect with how you felt when you originally became aware of the information. Weed out the mind/heart interference and remember what the genuine message was.

Receiving genuine guidance may not make you very popular. You tend to become matter-of-fact as well. Things make sense and seem obvious. You have a direct line to what your intuition states from this life and perhaps a few others. This unquestionable “knowing” may irritate those you deal with. They may feel that you are uncaring or a know-it-all. They may also mistake your mental strength and stability as some type of personality disorder. You really want people to know that you love them and offer support, care and nurturing. You are not an emotionless robot so do not present yourself as one. This is one caveat. Remember to offer love and support because when others are still dealing from their heart or mind they will not comprehend your God Center directness. Find truth but remember how to love.

Have you known spiritual leaders to seem arrogant or lofty? This is that caveat that we make reference to. You may have profound faith and dedication to God but still seem unapproachable or distant. This really doesn’t help you or anyone else. Life does not occur in a vacuum. You need information from within AND still participate in life. This is one of your life goals.

To be lofty and above all others will make your soul group connections diminish. You will seem to travel in isolation. You may only communicate with others who have your same lofty beliefs. Then what good are you doing for your loved ones, family and community? Be a real person with a direct connection to God. Remain humble and stay connected to loved ones. Be aware that they are still dealing in terms that you have found to be ineffective and obsolete. They still deserve your love and attention. If they cannot deal with you on your spiritual level then choose to send them angels, pray for their well-being and jump in with help where and when you can.

Don’t be a silo in a world of too many silos. Use your knowledge and awareness to help everyone along. Send love, hope and healing to all others. You are not going to break bread with them or allow them to live in your guest room but a thoughtful prayer and blessing is awesome. There are struggles throughout this world. Send something positive to these places or situations. Many spiritual beings will offer that LOVE is always the answer. Embrace this and see where it takes you.

Love is truly in your God Center. Self-love, love of others and love for all Creation does not just reside in your heart. The entirety of “your” truth is in your God Center and real life will flow from there.

The Blessed Journey; Past, Present & Future

Too much of our time is spent in the past or future. This is not conducive to being available to spirit. Constantly looking forward or back is not the optimal state of health for your chakras and other energy centers. It is like being imbalanced the entire time. We often encourage you to be grounded, centered, cleansed and cleared. This state of being is where you are best prepared to respond to life.

Cleansing your energy begins in your core. If you envision an energy pole through the top of your head down through your midline and out between your feet, this is your core. It is this area where you are able to react to energy and still remain stable. Grounding yourself will help you withstand any energy blows you are expecting or any that are unexpected. You may be buffeted, but with good core health you will right yourself again immediately.

This may make sense to you now. Does it seem like something happens to knock you off balance and it may take an extended amount of time to recover? You may realize that your resilience is less than optimal. If you manage your core energy, your feelings of wellness will be constantly present.

You have noticed people who respond to stress and conflict with the least amount of upset. How do they do this? They are more likely to meditate and cleanse their energy. They may also have a strong faith in a higher power. Continually reacting to emotions, events and experiences is not recommended. Much of life may be more manageable by being proactive. Expect conflict or contrast but do not become undone by it.

We often speak of your life being charted. If these things are supposed to happen when they do, doesn’t that make it easier to accept it? You are able to understand that this event is intended to teach you something. It is so simple. Even something tragic is intended to teach you and those around you. Each of you came into life to both teach and learn. If you are the one experiencing some negative event, you are the teacher. If you are affected by an event that someone else experiences, you are the student. Doesn’t this reality make life more manageable?

Perhaps you feel that your life is unnecessarily negative. This may not be so. It may be your perspective that is far too negative. Faith will go a long way in teaching you that life is exactly what you expected.

If you are more advanced, you may have charted some difficult experiences to manage. This may help you accept that you have so much more to be proud of. You charted some harsh times simply because you knew you could get through them! You are actually at the head of the class.

The other possibility for experiencing many dramatic events is that you have not matured effectively and you are overly reactive to even some simple contrast that life brings to you. Some people exist in varying levels of drama. Even if something is simple and straight forward, these people will create drama where there is none. Everyone knows someone like this. But, have you considered that you may be this type of person?

Perhaps you would like to test this theory. If your life contains continuous drama, make a point of finding better balance. Meditate, pray, journal and be in the present. Make sure each day is accompanied with these healing practices. The next time something upsetting happens do you blow it out of proportion even beyond your usual level of drama? You might be addicted to drama. It is like binging on drama because you went without for some time. You more than made up for it.

This will be only one clue. With heightened self-awareness you may find some additional behavior that also supports your need to be constantly upset. This tendency may surprise you since people who cultivate drama may get on YOUR nerves. This is entirely possible.

It has been said that people may be irritated by behavior in other people which may closely mirror their own. An example may be someone who emphatically insists that they hate people who lie. Then, after time you may notice that this person may also have a habit of not always telling the truth. This is more common than you may realize.

Being able to see behavior in other people but not in you is due to a lack of objectivity. When you are the one experiencing something upsetting, you feel justified creating drama about it. Looking at you with objectivity is something you have to work on. Finding better balance and quicker recovery from upset would be worth the effort.

Much of your current behavior was developed in childhood. You watched others navigate through many differing events and then adjusted your behavior accordingly. Many people feel that they have become their parents at some point. This makes sense since they would be your primary role models. Anyone close to you while growing up would likely contribute to your coping skills.

Did you learn to behave similar to your parents or other caregivers? Or, did you make a point of behaving the opposite of them? Either scenario is possible.

Now that you are here, do you need more balance and emotional stability? Have you begun to notice that you could cope or manage upset more effectively? Or, are you pretty good at staying calm?

This may be one of your goals. Find balance and use caution when met with contrast. Perform some daily self-care which promotes good health and healing. Cleanse your core and remain in the present. This is something that you may work on from day to day and that is fine. Drastic changes are rarely good or permanent.

Resilience is something that you want to be. Remind yourself often. Work on evaluating your behavior objectively then make some positive changes. If you hear or see your parents when looking in the mirror, is that a good thing?

Remain in the “now.” Allow life to nudge you but not break you. Regaining your center will help you to function more efficiently

Blessed is the Journey

People are in a hurry to get to the end of any stage, event or growth period. The results are fine but some of the most important times are the trips getting there. This is where you go through the experiences that culminate in your advanced learning and spirituality. The journey is more than half of the experience.

We will offer a few examples.

In order to have a baby you don’t get pregnant and then have the baby a week later. This is a process that gives your body time to make physiological changes as well as your mind to make emotional changes. If you read books or meet with other expectant mothers, you realize that the process has been well documented. The changes that your body makes are in direct response to the changes needed for gestation and birth.

You have time to get ready for the baby. If you gave birth after one week you would be overwhelmed and unprepared. Your body and mind would be in shock. Then, you would be expected to be a good parent without any time to actually prepare for the job. Too much, too soon.

Another example is perhaps you want to be a millionaire. Maybe you have an older relative that charted great wealth for their own life and now they have great wealth to pass on to family members. You won’t receive this money when you are 10 years old. You wouldn’t have the maturity to manage money or even grasp the concept of wealth. Perhaps you charted getting the inheritance when you turn 21. This is still very soon but you may have wanted a very demanding journey of managing money and not losing all of it due to immaturity.

In fact, people usually inherit money when they are more mature. This is optimal since you should have developed some money management skills and are capable of maintaining your wealth and not squandering it. It seems that your elders seldom give you money outright but prefer to bequeath it to you after their death. This will give you the most amount of time to become responsible with many years of money management and budgeting history.

The last example is about love and marriage. Imagine that you married quite young but believe that this person is truly your life partner. Soon, there are problems in the marriage and tension develops. You may not have adequate communication skills so each disagreement gets blown out of proportion. Neither of you are able to manage money effectively so there are arguments over finances. You may also feel tied down and missing out on some exciting relationships. All of these issues occur because both of you have not had enough life experience. One or two areas of contention may be manageable but all of these problem areas are simply too much.

Each of you exit the relationship and now you are dealing with whatever responsibilities you gathered together whether it is children, debt, legal trouble, joblessness, a mortgage…  Now it is up to you when you enter into another relationship. Have you matured? Do you better have communication skills now? Are you better at managing your money? Now may be the better time to find another lasting relationship.

Finding a better relationship may be as simple as waiting until you are independent, resilient, mature, financially responsible, reliable and a better partner. The journey taught you what you really want or need in a relationship. Marriage too soon, whether due to age or not knowing each other well enough, doesn’t last. You didn’t know the skills you need for a successful marriage until you took that journey.

Hopefully these examples explain the concept of gaining knowledge and experience in order to benefit from the process. Too much, too soon, complicates your life choices.

Being mature is a good precursor to many of life’s commitments. Broaden your knowledge and do your best to decide what you truly want. A departed Uncle of mine, Ora, recently told me, “You may get what you want but you might not want what you get.” I still have a lot to learn.

Life charts have some common characteristics. Usually, you schedule turmoil in one of the thirds of your life span. Perhaps in childhood/ young adulthood, adult or elder years. So, if you had a problematic childhood, you likely will have better experiences in the other two thirds. Or, if you had an ideal childhood you may have turmoil in the other two thirds, and so on. The problem with this concept is if you have had a troubled childhood, the dysfunction and learned helplessness may carry over into your adult life. If you have not dealt with this childhood turmoil, you may disrupt your remaining years. So, you could be waiting for relief but get none due to your lack of healing and maturity.

You still must do the work. If you haven’t learned how to be part of a healthy marriage, you won’t have one. If you haven’t learned how to be a good parent, you won’t be one. If you haven’t learned how to manage money, you won’t have wealth. Life is set up in order for you to gain the most from life experiences. This is what you asked for but you must be an active participant and gain the blessings that you have charted. If not, blessings will leave your life quickly like falling through a sieve. One million dollars will not last long if you are wrought with immaturity, dysfunction, substance abuse, dishonesty and denial.

Life isn’t magic. The journey is necessary so you will know what to do when you finally get what you want.




Become the Vessel

There are many steps to increase your spirituality. You must open to God and allow your healing. There are things that we do which block this process. Spirit often reminds us to get out of our own way.

Being open is to allow yourself to believe in God, prayer, healing, miracles and limitless faith. Any amount of doubt will slow this journey. Open refers to a wide open space in your mind and being that is free from judgement, doubt or resistance. It is allowing yourself to be a blank canvas available to the Divine.

There are habits, behavior and ways of processing information which may be blocking your receptivity to God. You may set some goals to rid yourself of some obvious blocks to being open but some more obscure blocks may be left intact. That is why increasing your spirituality is a process. Divine clarity and complete openness is something that must be worked on over time. Always believe that you have more to learn. Even believing that you know everything is a block to higher evolution.

Receptivity is allowing you to be filled with your chart, faith, growth and maturity. Receive anything that the Light wishes to bring you. Strive to be open and receptive.

There are new ideas and different ways of thinking that you may immediately resist. It is best to be open to this possibility and at least consider what you are learning and why. To believe in only one route to find God you will certainly not find Him.

New ways of thinking are presented to you for a reason. This is a process in which spirit is offering you a more versatile way to worship and gain insight. If you doubt the source of new information then it truly may not be for you but if you have respect for the source, these may be the answers that you seek.

We have all been met with new ideas. Some fit and others don’t. What you know to be true now may have actually surprised you a few years ago. It is this ability to receive input that pushes you to grow. Test it. Try it out. If it really doesn’t work for you, let it go. If this same idea is presented to you again, it is likely meant for you to consider it more seriously. This is one way God and spirit work.

Mindfulness keeps you in the “now.” Not looking back or forward. Yes, you are encouraged to make goals but being in this very moment is essential to being open and receptive. To resist looking anywhere but this moment is key to finding that perfect space to meditate and commune with God and spirit.

You do not live life in the past or future. You live this life in the present. This is where you gain more insight than you have thought possible. To be grounded in now will bring answers to both the past and future. Know when to reach for it and when to say that it is ok to keep going. Resisting unnecessary emotion will bring more clarity to you.

Your genuine life is in spirit. While you are here, your chart involves lessons. Minimal emotion is good to help weed through your lessons and resist any unnecessary delay in learning. Severe mood swings actually cloud the Divine. Gather your experiences, learn the lessons and weave all of it into the fabric that is you. You will have more success if you keep your emotions moderate and live in the now.

Prayer is communicating with a Higher Power. Speak to God and release anything that is not of your higher self. Release any dark or negative thoughts and behavior. And, ask to be filled with unlimited Bright, White Light of Source.

Then allow your guides, angels and other protective beings to intervene on your behalf. Oddly, you may pray and voice your wishes for knowledge and understanding but if you don’t give Source permission to assist you, it will not occur. Your free will would override God’s Will.

Faith is the total release of any control that you feel you have in your life. By giving your life to God you will be at once healed, on your chosen path and squarely in the Light. Any doubt will undermine faith. It is certainly human to take back control of life’s circumstances, perhaps without even realizing that you have.

Faith also has a lot to do with finding your life purpose. If you continuously insist that you are here to do something specific, your actual purpose for this life may be vastly different. Faith will adjust your direction to bring you in alignment with what you genuinely came here to do. Altruistic actions are always a good decision but the world also needs bankers, investors, law enforcement, scientists… or other profession that is not what you would normally consider spiritual.

The best option is to do what you love, what you are drawn to and/or what comes naturally AND help to care for those less fortunate. Your vocation and working for God are not mutually exclusive. There are many ways to include all wonders of the world into each life. Faith will bring you to the doorway of your intended life but you make the choice to walk through it. Mistrust of your path will cause lost time attending to what you promised God that you would do.

Positive affirmations are what you say to yourself instead of the cycle of negative self-talk that you are used to. Focus on what areas of self-doubt that you have then increase the scope to include all areas of life. Resist the urge to restart the negative self-talk. This is not positive or beneficial. To heal and become ONE with the Universe, your thoughts must reflect that positivity, hope, joy and love that created us. Respect yourself and always be your greatest advocate and friend. Use the words that touch your soul and be whole again.

Positive visualizations also assist in overcoming doubt, fear, ego and dysfunction. In your mind’s eye view yourself as stunning, whole, fully healed and full of Light. Allow no blocks or barriers. Envision pure and vibrant colors. Glow like the brightest star and move with untold grace. To be God you must appear to be God. This is your natural state. Envision what being ONE with the Universe truly looks like. This is you.

Be Healed

As a seer and healer I have frequent talks with spirit. I need to be tuned in and fairly open energetically in order to hear my guidance. Sometimes I am not the best listener and I get my direction in time. Weeks ago I asked how to make any healing last long or become permanent. Now I have some understanding.

Usually healings take place and then all of us usually revert back to whatever closed thinking, dysfunction or previous physical state full of blocks & barriers. Even with a truly gifted healer, the effects may be temporary. Why, because we undo it. In order to make a healing permanent you must release any control or influence that you believe that you have over the situation. It would be like handing the entire situation to God and NOT taking back any control over it.

Most of us can’t do this. If we have a habit of overthinking a situation or physical state, we will likely still keep overthinking it past the time of healing. You would have to adopt complete faith and this is something that we all have a hard time doing. Most people can’t release all control over any important life circumstance. It is not our nature to do this easily. The only time we would take this step readily is if we were raised around and within a culture of total faith.

Have you ever wondered about the people that attend a Tent Revival and suddenly begin to walk again? Aside from the potential that this situation is staged, this would be a monumental feat. If you are the person who can walk again, how would you respond to this situation? Would you wake up in the morning and still be able to walk? Is it possible that you would need your wheelchair again? With total faith and an absence of doubt, this person may be able to walk from that healing forward.

We have talked about miracles in the past. These situations are very real. My own sister had a rollover accident and she reported to EMS and police that someone pulled her out of the wreck while the car was on its roof. Witnesses to the accident stated that there was no one there and she climbed out of the wreck unassisted. Who pulled her out of the wreck? She did not get injured. Not even a scratch. She pulled out in front of a car traveling 50 mph or more and her SUV was t-boned. Something Divine was at play here. Someone saved her from injury and pulled her from the wreckage. Obviously the lessons in this situation were not about severe injury in an auto wreck. This was our own miracle.

So where do you start? In order to be fully healed you must work on the issues in your life that hold you back from optimal health and well-being. Undo the physical, emotional and functional damage. Become the perfect “vessel” for healing.

What is a perfect vessel? Hollow.

You may wonder how you may be hollow when you have organs, blood, bone and other body tissues. Do you have to envision all of these contents when you evaluate your body’s well-being? No! Perceive yourself as full of light and bright, fluid colors. Imagine these stunning lights moving freely throughout your being. Now, push those beautiful colors outside of your physical boundaries. You are a stunning orb of God’s Light and love.

Banish any knot or bundle of stagnant energy. Flush these colors throughout your day. Whenever you think of it pump the vividness of your colors back up to phenomenal. Remain hollow and resist any physical form. Fluid, crystal clear and bright. This is a perfect vessel.

Now, how many ways are we capable of undoing this perfect vessel? Several. What is the best direction for each of us in order to maintain that perfect state? Be vigilant and meditate. Vigilance requires frequent attention. You must flush out all negative energy or darkness throughout your day. If you forget, most of everything that you have managed to release will come back. Meditation is key as well.

Finding an inner state of calm and receptivity to God will bring about some dramatic changes. Those moments are what complete faith feels like. You envision yourself as that hollow perfect vessel and allow God, spirit and other Heavenly Hosts to communicate with you. You resist active thought. You keep your mind blank and open. You remain grounded, centered, cleansed and cleared. Your breathing is slow, deep and rhythmical. You brighten your colors to fill the room and you don’t take back any control. You become ONE with the Universe.

Find this state each day and refuse to be guided by ego, greed and fear.

Now I am going to sit back and relax and wait for spirit to tell me all the ways you intend to fill back up with what you want, need or can’t let go of. This is the lesson. Without you becoming the perfect vessel for healing, you will go unhealed.

A Desert Period

There are times in life when not much happens. There may be a lull in emotional events and fairly reasonable success in all other areas of your life. There are desert periods charted for various reasons. It may be a time of learning where you read books, attend groups, take some courses, focus on your family and friends, set some goals, relax… There are some specific purposes for these periods. Normally, you would recognize when the desert period ends because life would seem to start up again and bring you more challenges to respond to.

These are some expected desert periods. Then, there are desert periods that you create by bowing out of life or being in denial. This would be a type of self-isolation or self-defense. This type is not charted and does not promote healthy coping, learning or relationships. You are simply ignoring life.

You felt some joy and relief that you could skip some of your charted experiences. You missed the point. Skipping experiences that are definitely below your current energy vibration is allowed. Yes you may skip negative events, behavior and relationships and there may be actual desert periods to account for the lack of activity…BUT… you cannot just skip out on life.

Life was intended to be difficult. That is what you embraced. Now, you may feel that some things are too negative or cumbersome to manage and you want to opt out. This was not intended. The more complexity you charted, the higher evolved that you are spiritually.

You would not have been allowed to chart such contrast without the ability to manage it.

It truly is a blessing that you wanted to work so hard in this lifetime that you would make some real progress. You are that strong.

Simple right from wrong and yes and no charts are written for people who are of lower vibration. They may have had some dark lives and they are just starting their ascension. They have charted simple tasks which are fairly direct and straight forward. They chose to place these right/wrong lessons before themselves in order to become more familiar with choosing right instead of past lives of choosing wrong. YOU are not this person. You are here on this site because you have found the desire to be evolved, informed and enlightened.

You may still make some wrong, misinformed or negative choices but you are here seeking God and absolution. You realize that you are responsible for your own soul and there are more positive places for you to occupy.

This may be true of your soul but now that you are human, life seems to hold too many difficult experiences. You want to opt out of some heart break and hardships. Try to remember that you charted life to learn specific lessons and experience certain things in order to learn more. You have some basic knowledge about a lot of things as a soul in the afterlife. You made a decision to expand your experience in certain areas. Very much like rounding out your general knowledge.

You may have had success in love many times and now you want to experience heart ache and loneliness. This is to expand your knowledge in this one area. You may have had lives of prosperity and now you want poverty. Yes, it sucks. But this is what you wanted. The opposite may also be true. You may have had lives of poverty and now want immense prosperity. Enjoy!

The caveat is, after many lives of poverty, you may dwindle down your cash and resources to again be in the more familiar state of poverty. After lives of being lonely and isolated you may force your loving partner and family to abandon you so you may return to the more familiar life of loneliness. These life lines can’t go unchecked. You would not want to destroy a loving, positive, successful life in order to revert back to a previous state of existence. This may happen inadvertently. If you wander through each day without feelings of responsibility, you may undo some very beautiful aspects of your life.

Don’t opt out. Trust that you are higher evolved and you set some pretty impressive goals for yourself. You came here to succeed and return home with some hard-won spiritual advancement. Stay on course. Get through the good times and the bad. Wear your experiences with pride.

A good metaphor may be that you are seeking a degree in life. You have lifelines in the required areas of love, family, wealth, spirituality, health, accomplishment, charity… You have required courses and elective ones. The goal is to obtain a degree which covers all areas of life with a focus in one or two specialized topics. You can’t skip any courses. If you do you won’t get a degree. You must fulfill all requirements or fall short and have to put in some extra semesters. No one wants to put in any more work than is necessary. Do the work and get your degree.

You are here to round out your learning in areas that you may be lacking. Or, you wanted to get a higher final grade. None of this sounds easy or superficial. You understood this. If you didn’t have goals, there would be no reason to be here.

Understand that a desert period may be charted but for specific reasons. Being lazy, subversive or in denial is NOT a desert period. You may think you are savvy or unconventional but when you return to the Other Side, you may be sorely lacking. Savvy turns sour in a hurry.

A Big Surprise

This may come as a complete shock to you but it is OK to skip some things that you have charted!

Surprising right? The only time that this is recommended is when the event, relationship or journey is of a lower vibration than where you are. We will try to explain this so that everyone is able to comprehend what we mean.

Take for example a woman who has been unfaithful to her husband a few times in the past. For various reasons she stepped outside of her marriage. Then, she either resolved some emotional issues or made a determination that she will behave with more truth and honor. She stopped cheating. She raised her vibration by making this necessary step. Perhaps she charted a few more affairs. It is ok for her to skip those subsequent relationships because she has already ended this cycle of negative behavior. She is now above any relationship which demeans or undermines her marriage and husband.

Another example is a man who has a step-son. He has an extensive history of disliking this young boy for various reasons. After some time, he has begun to see his actions as unfair and unsupported by the child’s own behavior. He realizes he was angry at the situation, not the child. He decides to make amends and treat the child more fairly. He may have charted some more detrimental actions and attitudes toward this child and it is good that he is able to skip these lower vibration actions. He has risen above his previous behavior and is entitled to behave with more honor.

What happens when you skip anything in your chart? The surprising fact is that each chart has many option lines. You did not just write one story that can only progress from one point to another. You actually charted a wide variety of options. This accounts for some of the changes that occur. You may raise or lower your vibration depending upon how you feel, others’ contribution or what type of reactions occur from you or anyone else involved.

Random events do occur, but not often. The greatest source of variance would be people who are dark. They may not have charts and they could impact your life in a variety of ways. Either you have some relationship with a darker person or one impacts you in some way. This would account for some unplanned or uncharted delays or detours.

You may also skip or divert a situation by seeking Divine intervention. Miracles happen and it is possible that in a moment of desperation, you may be granted some altered consequence or reprieve.

You may change or shorten a difficult life cycle by rising above it much earlier than expected. This is optimal! You may be able to respond to many life circumstances with absolute faith. In these instances you would jump well ahead of your chart. Then, you may experience a lull in events or another charted lifeline will begin. If you then slide backward, your original chart may resume. This is very possible. You may possess Divine inspiration in one moment and return to your normal level of faith in the next.

The complexities of life charts may sound truly intricate. Please remember to rise above any negativity, build faith and make uncommon decisions that boost your vibration and allow you to burst forward. Embrace God and the inspiration that comes from deep faith and a spiritual perspective.

It is always better to treat people with more respect than you normally would. It is encouraged that you stop lying, manipulating or attempt to cheat anyone. Improve your interaction with people, pets, the environment, private property… This is the best way to go and your overall spiritual success will respond as well.

Your vibration takes into account your behavior but also your thoughts and feelings to a lesser degree. If you harbor anger toward others but resist demonstrating this, your vibration will still suffer. If you think, feel and behave more positively, your vibration will increase. It matters much more that you truly find understanding and forgiveness and not simply state that you have.

You may have heard people state that thoughts become real. As far as your overall vibration, this is true. Being a better person goes deeper than what you display to the outside world. This is something that you must take into account. Find faith deep into your soul. Altering your behavior superficially does very little for your energy vibration and spiritual success.

Walk the walk AND talk the talk. Your Light shines from deep inside you out into the world. You are the answer that you seek. Live up to it.

My Landslide of Grief

There are times when you suffer many losses during a short amount of time. Usually the losses are similar to the ones listed. Not often do you experience the death of significant people in a short amount of time. It does happen, but not often.

It is a series like this that people will state that they “haven’t recovered” from all those close deaths. You could meet someone ten years later and they will still mention this series of deaths that they were unable to get through. You realize that the pain is still causing them emotional distress. This mountain of grief is difficult to manage for any person. Ideally, they could process the loss of one person at a time until they have resolved a major portion of their overall grief. Most people won’t do this. They will continue to look at the entire group of losses and remain unable to recover emotionally.

We have stated many times that no event is intended to undo you. Each event is a lesson. You needed to learn a variety of things from one loss and then be prepared for any future losses. The culmination was meant to be lessons learned not a pile of grief added to the current pile.

I have experienced a lot of grief in the past three months. My family had to euthanize a guinea pig after struggling to heal him from a tumor removal. We made the decision to end his suffering but our grief was monumental. He was very much a part of the family.

Then I lost a dear aunt after a short illness. It was expected but still painful. We lost her sister only 1 year ago. So this is a good example of layering. Recently, our hamster died. We struggled to care for him but we could not save him from illness.

We have lost several community members in close procession. People I knew and people I knew of. Many younger than you would expect. We had one mother lose three sons within a year. One in his late 30’s from a medical problem, one in his late 20’s from an overdose and the most recent one in his early 30’s of an overdose.

Then, of those community members, I lost a male cousin who was only 55 to a massive heart attack. He was only 2 years older than me and this was completely unexpected. His brother is currently in the late stages of lung cancer and will die soon at the age of 53. So that will be two deaths in one family within a month. Both far too young.

We have lost nearly 10 people in our small reservation community in the past 3 months.  With 2 more quickly approaching death.

I’m at a loss for words. I haven’t posted for a while because of this mind-numbing trend. Perhaps I don’t yet embrace the lessons that were intended. Maybe I am not listening. Perhaps I don’t have an open-mind.

I work with many people who have lost someone. It is almost too numerous to mention. But what is our lesson? What do we need to learn as a community?

Two died of overdoses so this obviously speaks to drug awareness, prevention and intervention. Many died from complications of Diabetes. This is something that any native community deals with. The people who died of heart disease may also be attributed to Diabetes. Then two people died of cirrhosis. With lifelong alcohol abuse, their bodies shut down and they succumbed. We also have a higher rate of alcoholism so complications are common in our community.

No one remembers a time when we have suffered so many losses this close together. When I ask spirit, “why?” I get one word, “renewal.”  If you lived here, knew the members of this community and suffered this many losses close together, what does renewal mean? No one has found the answer, including me.

I will keep searching. My impression is that I don’t have enough distance from the pain yet. With some amount of healing I will listen and learn what renewal means and how this happens in my own community. I will hear more words from spirit and will resist shutting down in exasperation. I will find some solace and allow my heart to heal.

This is why I am here. I am a messenger but for now I don’t really know what the message is.

I have faith. I understand there are intended lessons. I understand that we are meant to be brought close together without any boundaries between us. We have all been touched by drug, alcohol, medical and accidental deaths. Some losses were expected and others were not. Sometimes death does not just touch the elderly.

There are times when a loss happens and you have time to find your faith and get through it. There are other times when losses happen so close together that coping simply means getting through one day at a time.

We will find out what renewal means and we will do it together. You may be able to place your finger on the truth now while I am still simply trying to manage. The messenger has some learning to do.

Many Sources of Grief

Whenever we speak of grief a lot of people feel it is solely about the death of someone. This is not the only cause of grief. There are many different sources that are common to all people and there are events or circumstances that create grief in someone selectively.

Here are some common examples:

  1. The death of a pet.
  2. A significant illness in which one may lose some functioning.
  3. The loss of a job.
  4. Moving to a new apartment, home or other housing.
  5. A divorce or loss of a romantic relationship.
  6. Miscarriage.
  7. Graduating from school, college or trades program.
  8. A loved one moving out of town.
  9. The sale or donation of household items or things that have sentimental significance.
  10. A major change in one’s personal status i.e. weight gain, weight loss, the need for corrective lenses, onset of inability to eat certain foods…
  11. Medical conditions common with aging such as high blood pressure, heart disease, diabetes, arthritis, cataracts…
  12. Requiring medications or treatment for medical problems.
  13. Becoming a parent, grandparent, great grandparent which may cause you to feel “old.”
  14. Significant debt, bankruptcy or other cause of feeling financially unstable.
  15. The death or significant illness of community members, celebrity or public official close to your own age.
  16. A class reunion.
  17. A wedding anniversary for an advanced length of time such as 30 years, 50 years and so on.
  18. Dramatic changes in your community such as a building being demolished, a new franchise in town, an old business closing, the loss of a police force, a house fire, violence…
  19. Any legal action such as being sued or bringing a lawsuit against someone else. This is worsened if it lasts a significant amount of time or results in a significant loss of resources.
  20. Retirement.

Some of the examples are not purely bad or negative. It is possible that these “happy” events also have some negative aspects or drawbacks. Any event or circumstance may cause some melancholy or mild feelings of loss or change.

Do any of these events cause you to have a permanent change? Is the impact only temporary? Does any one person actually have a few of these events at the same time?

Any of these events may add another layer of grief to the layers that are already in place. Once you have added layers are you able to process any grief-causing situation or are you basically shut down? In essence, are you able to process and release any childhood grief at this time in your life? Not without intention. Ask anyone who has actually released any childhood issues if they could have done it without addressing it on purpose. This is not likely. Once anything is buried, it usually takes a concerted effort to unearth it and find a way to make it better. There are those times when significant childhood issues surface without warning. Then what do you do? You either suppress it again or you make an effort to feel better about it or some combination of the two.

Are you able to recognize how layers of grief make your current level of coping more difficult? Any event that disrupts your feelings of grief may cause you to become overwhelmed. It is like scratching the surface of a lava flow. The underlying layers are intense and difficult to manage. Your normal ability to function may pale in comparison to the intensity of the lava. It may take some time in order to regain your perspective and believe that you are able to cope effectively again. How many steps did you take backward when presented with the lava? Now you must begin again. This feeling alone may cause you more grief.

As you have seen, grief may come from many varied sources. It may get easier to cope with grief. It also may get so intense that you feel unable to function effectively. You may be surprised where your feelings of grief have come from. It may be any change in your normal life that brings about feelings of sadness, discomfort or requiring adjustment.

We come back to the concept of perspective. Any change in life may be approached as positive or an occasion for learning. Even the times that you feel you are moving backward may be the best opportunities to learn, make adjustments and become wiser. It is truly the best perspective if you are able to be thankful for contrast. No action, event or circumstances would be outside of your ability to cope effectively.

“What could you do if you knew you could not fail?” This attitude would open a world of possibilities for you to live with. All matters are manageable. Everything will teach you some valuable lessons. Even a cycle of the same circumstances could still teach you something new each time you experienced it.

Now we come back to your perspective on the afterlife. Every experience is a lesson. Anything positive or negative is intended to teach you. You have written this chart and there are actually very few things that happen that are random or unplanned. This is your own lesson plan that you wrote with a large amount of consideration. You understand what you need to experience and learn. You want to grow and mature in all areas of life so you believe that these experiences will round out your soul growth.

To understand this makes everything fall into perspective. Grief is unnecessary. Grief is what humans experience when they think that they have lost something. This is never the case. Even in your own life you could write a list of events that have caused you grief and you could list the number of things that each experience taught you. You have lost nothing. In reality, you have only gained knowledge, insight and wisdom. You cannot fail, truly.

Calling All Angels!

This is Lisa. I have been in a weird space recently. I lost my Aunt one week and my sister was baptized the following one. This seems like a wide range of emotions very close together.

Today I asked for angels to come to me and give me wisdom and guidance. I was not disappointed. I feel emotionally stable again…for now.

We are not done with the “life after death” topic. This is a small detour that I needed for myself.

  1. Stay calm and serene. Spirit may intercede for you more efficiently in this state.
  2. Quieting your thoughts helps Universal guidance to flow to and through you.
  3. Be grounded upon High and be grounded upon Low. It is this gentle state in between that creates the balance and spiritual stability that you need.
  4. Remain balanced even when you are stressed, surprised or unhappy. An over-reaction causes a ripple effect in your stasis. Thereby much more will become unbalanced as a result.
  5. Top to bottom and everything in between works in concert together. A focus upon just a few areas creates an imbalance. Seek total health and nutrition. What is ingested is as important as what is eliminated. Be aware of both processes.
  6. Brighter more brilliant colors aid in your stability as well. Flush and refill all throughout your day. This helps to release any issues or concerns which are not worthy of your time and attention.
  7. More love in your heart and more love sent out to others will bring an exponential amount of love to you. Love is compounded and grows well in this positive medium.
  8. Brisk and lucid energy brings more grace and understanding to you. All matters are allowed to flow in and flow out. Nothing is valuable enough to hold on to. If it is glorious, you will have constant access to it anyway.
  9. Grace brings a positive, healthy glow to you which others will be drawn to. From there you will infuse them with good health and well-being.
  10. Travel only matters if it brings you enrichment and expansion. Much of what is necessary may be learned here, on your own.
  11. Grace is in never-ending supply. The times you feel barren and exhausted is because YOU have stepped out of the constant flow.
  12. Hearing from departed loved ones is a precious benefit and it must be shared with all others. Giving freely will bring progress and good graces to you as well.
  13. Faith covers all bases. There is never a moment when you are left without guidance, love and support.
  14. Any energy may be channeled into good energy. Don’t forget to change directions when you begin to struggle. This step will change your life dramatically.
  15. It is never a bother to stop and learn from life’s circumstances. To avoid any adversity would render life meaningless.
  16. “Beauty” is assigned its meaning by you. Any event, circumstances or contrast has beauty if that is what you see.
  17. Love travels faster than anger, hate or judgment. Sending love out brings more back to your area, community and region. You create a blanket of love by sending it out in all directions.
  18. Learning and teaching by example is God’s way.
  19. Always flush out that spot where you store and harbor negative energy. This holds you back from greater deeds. Find it even though you may have effectively hidden it from you.
  20. Grace walks at every vibration. Never feel that you are unreachable by it or God’s love. At any point in your life, God sends you enough grace to meet your needs. This is your truth.