Beyond Boundaries

Sometimes going beyond your comfort level is just what you need to jumpstart your spirituality. Meeting new people and trying new things will open some doors that you may have inadvertently closed. If you are sluggish in completing your chart, this may be one reason why your experiences aren’t coming to you efficiently.

You have heard the saying that the only person that you can change is yourself. This is true. If you refuse to push yourself beyond what is common and comfortable, you will miss some important experiences and possibly some people that were supposed to be in your chart.

By far the most common question for  psychics, mediums, card readers… is about love and finding the perfect partner. I myself have been asked this question much more frequently than any other. The problem is… people want someone perfect. There is no such thing. Every relationship requires adjustment and compromise. Over time you grow together or you grow apart. If you really want to keep this “perfect” relationship then it takes some work.

You have charted basically everything in your life. Some potential partners are missed because you are looking over their shoulder for that “perfect” person. Each time I respond to that one question, the person asking it tunes out. They do not want to do any searching or work at any part of the relationship. They think that finding the right job, partner, home, school… should take no energy. They want everything dropped into their lap. It won’t.

More often you must take some roads that you have not travelled, attend groups or classes that you never tried before. By expecting perfection, real life passes you by. Becoming evolved takes effort and commitment. It isn’t easy and you never get to say, “It’s because of this or that.” Why? Because you are an adult and you must accept responsibility for what you do in your own life. It is no longer your mother/father, the school, the job, an accident, a serious injury, debt… You must make changes to respond and react to what life has been for you. No one ever promised you “perfect.” There would be no learning if things didn’t take effort.

You must be the one who makes changes if what you are currently doing is not positive, proactive and healthy. A bad relationship is exactly that. Abusive relationships must be addressed. Changes are needed in order to grow closer to God. Improving your vibration is necessary. Lifting yourself up is truly an increase in vibration. Negativity, abuse, mistrust, manipulation, conflict, chaos and unhappiness bring you down.

Being successful in life takes work. You are responsible for what needs changing. This is exactly how you wanted it. Incarnating into earth life is a challenge and you were fully aware of this. Now take the time and set some goals. Prioritize what needs to be done. Resist the tendency to want everything ready-made. Any relationship, home, job… needs work. You make it into what you want it to be. Did you really find everything in your life already perfect? No! The same is true with your spirituality. Being stagnant does not improve your knowledge and learning. Following someone else also does not bring about the “you” that you want to be.

Your life is a process. Things change and so do you. Keeping some things current requires you to put in some effort and there is nothing wrong with that. Being stagnant in your everyday life will keep you uninspired. Be sure to try new things. Even trying something just once will bring new energy into your life. You are the one stating that nothing ever changes. Well, what are you doing to mix things up?

New people, places and experiences will allow the Universe to bring some of those missed lessons back to you. Staying in a constant routine leaves little chance for God and others to bless you with improvements, updates and upgrades.

The chance for something purely wonderful and “perfect” to fall into your lap happens when you are on your path, making progress on your chart, being open-minded and available to new experiences. That is part of the “charmed” feeling that you get when you are close to God. Then, it is possible for the miracle of something perfect to find you. All of us here are not at that point in our lives. We all have more work to do. It is very important that you are available for new things and experiences otherwise the Divine will not have any way to drop those blessings upon you!

The fear of change will also block those opportunities. Many people fear that things will change and most assume the change is for the worse. This is so untrue. Change is good and necessary. If there were no change you wouldn’t find the right job, a good partner, a better home, better health and more success both spiritually and monetarily.

Change is that beautiful avenue which brings about everything you expected and asked for. Embrace it. Be available. Open up to many new experiences and resist the urge to keeps things the same. Change is how we become the best of ourselves. God brings opportunities for us to evolve and grow. Once we have our strength and confidence we help others to challenge themselves to be better.

There are many spirit guides and earth guides that you have charted along your path. Are you allowing yourself to find them? If not, how many truly inspiring experiences have you missed? All of this just because you don’t like change. Sadly, change is what will bring you the ability to improve your life and everything that you have in it.

Be strong. Have faith. Embrace what God has sent your way! Don’t miss another moment of your happiness.

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