With Love…

Hold back no tears you feel from losing someone you love. It is Ok to mourn their loss as long as you regain a productive life within a year.

Too many people are lost in grief. They do not allow themselves to progress through grief and seemingly stand upon their brakes. To what end? No one knows. It certainly does not promote soul growth by refusing to cope with losses in your life.

Do you feel that you need to mourn forever as a sort of devotion to your lost loved one?

Do you feel guilty because they are gone and you have survived?

Worse yet, are you frozen in time and only choose to blame your loss for the reason that you have not progressed upon your path? 

There are no viable reasons for you to stop living your life because you have lost a partner, family member or friend. Get help. Seek counseling. Attend a support group.

Your loved one does not want you to pay homage to them by ceasing to live a productive life! This is a never-ending cycle of wasted time. There is nothing to be gained by grieving endlessly.

There is enough grief in life without you needlessly clinging to it. Change is expected and embraced. Your loved one has gone ahead to something better and more meaningful.

Only part of your chart is accomplished in this earth life. Much of your growth occurs on the Other Side. In fact, many souls do not incarnate often or at all. It is very possible to achieve ascension by studying on the Other Side only.

Look at death as your soul returning home. We are in a constant state of joy in Heaven. We gladly choose where to study or work where we gain the most love and contentment. We are able to accomplish a great many things on the Other Side between our incarnations.

There is nothing sad about dying. We all celebrate coming home! This life on this plane is so small and meek compared to our true existence.

Even those who die unexpectedly or by tragic means are brought out of a loving cocoon and allowed to process their residual issues and then seek the more complete, blissful life we may all have there.  

There isn’t any reason for either us or our loved ones to experience undue grief by leaving or being left.

There is so much more to their life and to yours!

Find a way to honor your loved one and let them go. Love remains forever and may grow and take on more meaning. Remember them at special times then resume your healthy, emotionally evolved life.

We will all come together again in the afterlife. Your path will represent so much more growth if you are able to keep grief in perspective.

Remain firmly planted in Mother Earth but always reach ever higher for your own ascension. Do not hold yourself back because of anyone or anything. You did not enter this earth life to stunt your growth and leave your path incomplete. Your loved ones who have already crossed over are well aware of this as well.

Let go and let God,


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  • franheal  On February 22, 2012 at 7:00 am

    Thank you Evelyn. What a lovely post! /Fran Zepeda

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 5, 2012 at 2:58 pm

    I am honored to have your comment, especially since they are so rare!

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 14, 2012 at 12:53 pm

    Thank you! I take that as a very important compliment. I am not very tech savvy so I admire your abilities. Some day I hope to expand my knowledge of the web.

    I’m so happy I found WordPress. This is such a supportive community.

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 16, 2012 at 8:09 pm

    There is a new pst today about grief. This is hands down the most popular subject on this blog.

    Thank you for being here.

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 16, 2012 at 8:11 pm

    Today is another post about grief. You will probably like it as well.

    The best part of this blog is the variety of subjects. I’m sure we will touch on grief again but I sense we are headed into business/banking/money next.

    Thank you for stopping by!

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 16, 2012 at 8:14 pm

    You are wise and thoughtful. I sense you possess great knowledge and insight. An ‘old soul’ if you will.

    This makes it all the more pleasing that you have found some of my content interesting.

    Today is another post about grief. Enjoy.

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 16, 2012 at 8:16 pm

    Thank you! I truly appreciate when people comment. Today’s post is a follow up on the grief topic.

    So glad you stopped by.

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 16, 2012 at 8:18 pm

    Great to hear from you! I envy your computer and marketing skills. I’m still keeping things small and simple. So far…

    Today’s post is a dollow up for the grief topic. Please check it out!

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 16, 2012 at 8:19 pm

    Thank you. I’m so happy you are pleased with what I do.

    You’ll find today’s topic is about grief. I have had so much interest in the original post that another post seemed like an awesome idea.

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 16, 2012 at 8:21 pm

    And a thousand times you are welcome here, always. I appreciate your time.

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 16, 2012 at 8:21 pm

    Great! So happy to have piqued your interest. Today’s post is about grief as well. Check it out.

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 16, 2012 at 8:24 pm

    OMG! I am so humbled by your compliment. I truly LOVE that you feel strongly enough about my content to share with others.

    By the way, today’s post is about grief. I think it came across pretty well. See what you think.

  • wellspring0fgodslove  On March 16, 2012 at 8:25 pm

    I’m am so pleased to have your interest. I like blogging so much and your appreciation makes it all the more enjoyable.

    Today’s post is on grief. Please see if you like it.

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