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10 Things to Confront and Resolve

May 23, 2013 – 5:47 pm

10 is the magic number. 10 goals for absolution will do just fine. 10 makes the most sense and 10 is manageable!

Set 10 goals for you to resolve and release. By focusing on these goals during your waking and sleeping hours, you will check them off your list more quickly.

Begin in childhood. Identify an age and an event or circumstances that were emotionally painful or significant. Identify this as your first goal to process and resolve. Then move forward in time to the next pivotal event or circumstances and identify this as your second goal to process and resolve. Continue up to matters in your current life.

Identifying 10 of these major times in your life from childhood up to the present will be cleansing and clarifying. The process of scanning your life for significant events or circumstances will help you to narrow your focus. It is much like a to-do list. Address each concern and move on to the next.

Please don’t rush through all 10 items. Focus and explore each one. Visualize yourself at that age and look around you to expand your perception of what occurred. How did it look and feel at your age? How did it look and feel to others involved? Did someone fail to protect you? Was anyone with authority aware of what had happened? Are you able to place this time in your life into better perspective?

Imagine yourself at that age. Now enter the situation as an the adult you are now. Approach the child/teenage/young adult you. Offer support and understanding. Provide love, nurturing and protection. Speak to the younger you and express your sadness at their situation. Hold the younger you if you like. Offer a hug. Sit in a rocking chair while embracing your younger self. Speak all of those things that no one offered you. Express understanding and acceptance. There is no judgment, of course. To judge this child would be a crucial mistake.

Spend as much time with younger you as you would like. Unconditional love is your gift to such a precious life. You did as you knew to do with your limited maturity and knowledge. Coping as a child/teen/young adult was vastly different than the coping you may do now.

Look outward. Where were the adults? Did they handle you well or imperfectly? As the now adult you, how would you respond to this same situation? Are you perfect now?

The goal of this list is to place events and life circumstances into perspective. Be your own best support. Handle the past with all of your current knowledge and experience. You know the feelings of the younger you. Who better to offer love, acceptance and nurturing now? Cherish the child. Protect the child. Say all the right things and make all the right moves. You deserve it.

Resolve this list of emotional events or life circumstances and seek to find forgiveness. This is a gift mostly for you. Forgiveness will relieve your darkness and negativity. This will truly be a fresh start. We are not perfect but at least we try. In time you may see the people in your life as trying to do their best as well.

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The Tight Rope

May 21, 2013 – 2:11 pm

Here we are…AGAIN. Stepping lightly and gently. Being vigilant assessing the breeze and the sway. Having to cling to that life-saving rope and grasp for air with our hands. We try not to look down. What is down there anyway? It must be dark and dismal, why else do we resist falling?

We must have heard the truth somewhere along the line. Someone clued us in and gave us some hope. We are all in this journey together so it makes sense that others that have gone before us KNOW the secret.

What we haven’t quite accepted yet is that the rope isn’t the journey, the leap of faith is.

We all have the blanket protection of God and the Universe. There is nothing vile, sticky and foul waiting for us. The freedom of FAITH is our destination.

God knows all. God sees all. God will provide. These are all true. We have no need for fear, control, desperation or greed. Do you sometimes feel like you have too many balls in the air. Your juggling is becoming too intense and unpleasant to enjoy life. You worry about this or fret about that. You keep notes and charts. You set a reminder on your phone. You have covered your calendar with endless post-its. All of this worry has sucked the joy out of life!

How much of this is out of your control? Then allow it to be out of your control!!! Let it go and trust God to bring you all that you need. Keep your deadlines and appointments but the senseless worry has to go.

Be reasonably prepared then allow God to provide. You worry about your parents, your children, your spouse, your in-laws, your co-workers… Trust God to keep them safe. Say a prayer for good health, safety and well-being, then have FAITH that they are being taken care of. So much of your daily anxiety is about things that you cannot influence or change. This must stop. BELIEVE in God and all of the Divine. Nothing truly happens without a purpose or intention.

Worry is the lack of faith in God.

Fear is the lack of faith in God.

Let go of the multitude of thoughts, fears and concerns that you busy your mind with. Relax, release and trust. That tight rope is your doing. You have manifested that tense balance between what is good and what is out of control. Your path is safe, secure and well-lit. It is dotted with guides, angels and loving spirit.

Your mind is powerful and creative. We wish for you to build bridges and roads, lakes and tree houses. Rooms full of Light, vibrant color and love. It is no longer necessary to walk that tight rope. There is no need for any fear, anxiety or ego. Manifest beautiful and wondrous things and release the need to control. It really isn’t possible to micromanage what God has set into motion. Your only charge is to find the learning, knowledge and experience that was intended.

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God Center Divination

April 30, 2013 – 6:05 pm

How to use your God Center to find meaning in life. It is much like using sonar. You send out an idea and you receive a positive/negative response.

Your God Center is located beneath your solar plexus. Imagine it as a spark of the Divine. In order to use this area for premonition, spend some time cleansing and clearing it. Then flush it with brilliant White Light. Infuse the area with brighter light until it is almost painful to look directly at it.

You will need to practice this over time. The goal is to place your fingers over the solar plexus and sense both physically and intuitively for positive and negative responses.

Start with simple answers. Place your fingers over your solar plexus and ask something that you know the answer to. A positive feels bouncy and upbeat. Almost like lofting a ball into the air. A negative response feels down, dull and with little reverberation.

Practice getting both positive and negative responses. An “I don’t know” will feel like neither. There may be no palpable response at all.

The trick with getting accurate results requires attention to detail. Be grounded, centered and open. Surround yourself in White Light and ask for protection against lower energies from your spirit guides and angels. Ask for responses for the best and highest good for yourself and others that you will ask questions about. These steps will make certain that you won’t get responses from earth-bound spirits or ghosts.

One thing that we don’t often think of is to unblock your ear chakras and flush them with amethyst-purple light. This will aid you to hear spirit.

Now, the hardest part is to remain objective! The moment you get excited or fearful or any emotion whatsoever, you’ll lose your objectivity and the responses you receive will no longer be accurate. Your ego voice may ramp up your emotions and spin wild tales or ghosts will be able to intervene because you have lost your protection by losing your focus. The downfall of this is that you may continue to believe that you have received accurate information and make plans or decisions based on untruths.

This technique is a lot like using a pendulum. With practice and objectivity, you may become pretty good at receiving accurate information.

It is always difficult to get information regarding yourself. This is one possible way to try to get those answers. It is important to remember that you may not receive any answers at all because you are intended to experience certain things in order to learn. Spirit will not allow you to skip some valuable lessons. That is not in their agreement when they contracted with us for this lifetime.

Stay positive. Resist the urge to elicit negative information about anyone. With lower intentions you will draw darker entities to you. This may be an upsetting experience. If you are seeking to be disruptive you may attract a lower entity that will attempt to remain with you and play with your emotions. This is called a psychic attachment. Always communicate with honor and stay infused with White Light. Keep good company whether in spirit or in life!

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Hidden Trauma

April 11, 2013 – 3:51 pm

The truth is under there somewhere. So many of us are trying to hide the “truth” about who we are and what we are really like. There are crazy moments when we actually feel that we don’t belong, don’t deserve, shouldn’t have, shouldn’t do, and shouldn’t succeed. We have to make apologies about our belongings, appearance, success and strengths.

Why do we feel the need to demean our existence? Why is our confidence so horribly low? Who apologizes for being successful? We do!

Is this a statement about who we are and how we feel about ourselves or this a statement about how we think and feel about the other person? Most often it is our own insecurities that have come into play. There are truly times when we minimize our success in order to avoid being judged by someone who is jealous and petty. This is uncommon. We are usually expressing some deeply rooted feelings about our own value and worthiness.

Somewhere along the line we decided that we are “less” than our peers, siblings or other people in our lives. We sabotage our success because it scares us. We are derailed by our “what if’s.” You may unwittingly avoid a promotion, a new relationship, a great opportunity, or a financial windfall. Why? Exactly… why?

We spend far too much settling. In order to find your truth and expand as a perfect Child of God, you may actually have to look at what it is that you are trying so desperately to hide.

It rears its ugly head during times of stress. A simple disappointment may get blown far out of proportion. Others may wonder why you are reacting so dramatically. You lose your grip for a day or two until you wrestle IT back into that box that you keep hidden so deep in your soul.

Anxiety is a common indicator of hidden issues. If you feel like you are constantly running from something, this concern must be looked at. If not dealt with, the anxiety may cause further disruption in your life. You may lose time at work, behave unpredictably, abuse alcohol or drugs, damage relationships, suffer financially, and lose your home or other belongings.

What is IT? Where did IT come from and why does IT haunt you? How deep are the roots? Is IT something long past or ongoing?

The truth about IT is not as bad as you think it is. In your search for enlightenment it is possible for you to unbury IT and cope. As you learn, experience and mature your ego will diminish. You’ll find it completely possible to deal with all of your secrets and move forward in strength and Light.

The key to this evolution is knowing that your life unfolds as expected. You wrote IT. You chose to experience IT to learn from, not to undo you. There is more than this one life. Your existence is a culmination of many lives and many experiences, positive and negative. No one event was intended to cease your growth or damage your soul.

A divorce, bankruptcy, suffering abuse, losing a child, being unable to have a child, cancer, a devastating car accident, being mugged, losing a job, someone’s suicide, being sued, foreclosure… There are many truly negative and desperate events that may occur in life, but your soul continues on.

Believe in your value. Acknowledge what it is that you keep hidden. Take time to understand the impact that IT had upon you and look for the lessons within. Your strength goes far beyond this. You have asked for difficult times “because” you are strong enough to overcome them. You are an advanced soul who decided that this traumatic event was necessary for a vast amount of growth. You had faith in your ability to move to the head of the class.

Your secrets only fester when hidden. They may grow out of proportion and threaten to consume you. Please don’t allow this to happen. Talk to someone. Journal. Pray. The next time IT jumps forward, see what it is an accept that IT is a part of you. Without this experience you wouldn’t be who you are today.

Anxiety and depression may need treatment. With help, you may be able to confront your problems and set them aside so you may lead a successful, productive life. You will no longer settle for a lesser existence. You may wear your experiences with strength and pride. In time, you may just relax and understand that soul growth requires expansion and knowledge. You have overcome many things and these secrets are not going to hold you down.

In God’s world, you will be better able to help others. When someone suffers from the same or similar instances, you may respond with empathy and understanding. Your difficult times may be a preparation for supporting others in a meaningful, confident way. This is as God would have it. Amen.

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“WE” Are Here

April 10, 2013 – 4:47 pm

The next step to your advancement is to find people of like-mind. This is important for your spiritual growth. Often people feel alone and isolated from others in their family or community. You may have been raised in an organized religion but have since had questions or concerns about what you have been taught. For some reason you feel unable to question or challenge the incumbant spiritual leader so you suffer in silence.

Many of your new beliefs are considered dark or perhaps evil by the existing religious hierarchy so you may feel you have nowhere to turn. Speaking out about your unpopular religious beliefs makes you feel like an outcast. In some more difficult situations, you may be chastised or even banished from the family/social system that you grew up in.

At this point, you have found this site and have been welcomed by a vast amount of people with flexible belief systems and receptivity to new thinking. Feel free to explore many topics on WordPress. As you search, be mindful of finding people who mirror your beliefs and either subscribe to their blog or contact them through email.

This entire process is about experiencing and learning. Even though you may feel on the cutting edge now, it is possible to further evolve and expand in time. You must have the freedom to undergo this growth. Support not only feels good but it also encourages mindful experimenting. Push the limits about what you know and how you feel. Find topics which resonate with you.

In a year you may have shifted your thinking and have adapted to a different perspective altogether. There are many avenues to pursue. You may be on your path, near your path or completely off of your path but it is this process of testing spiritual information that will lead you to fulfilment. Try things on and keep them or let them go.

Spirit is happy that you are here. You may have started this experience on WordPress with a different focus and somehow ended up here. Or, you may have been seeking spiritual knowledge right from the start.

“We” are a collection of entities that have chosen to work together at this time. There are 4 of us and we have many varied experiences to share with you. You are here with us at this time and that is good. If at any point you feel we are not speaking to your soul, it is ok to leave. There is never just one way to enlightenment.

We have spoken to your guides and We decide what topics would benefit the most people here. If at any time you have questions, feel free to email the presenter. She may provide further information to you individually. It is good to have a personal stake in your enlightenment. This course is self-directed and that is how it should be. No one is allowed to force their thoughts or feelings upon you. You must navigate your own spiritual journey.

In order to assist you optimally, we have sent earth guides to you. You will find that they help to mold and improve your perspective on life. This is someone you would easily refer to as a role model or mentor. It takes many experiences and opportunities for you to develop into a highly evolved, spiritual being. It takes many years for you to become your higher self and many will not achieve this level in this lifetime.

This is not a mistake. It may take many lifetimes for you to find your way to a faith-based life. Then, it may take many more to achieve spiritual success. As humans you want everything right now! This is not the case with your life chart and potential life purpose. There are many opportunities to achieve growth and expansion. The same learning cycle may repeat over and over until you arrive at the desired outcome. This is also ok.

God has an endless amount of patience and understanding. Forgiveness is immediate. Support is automatic. Maturity is the greatest single factor in ascension. It is far easier to learn when you have lost your urges to panic, become overwhelmed or feel judged.

“We” are here. We exist only to serve you in your journey toward a higher existence. Accpet our teachings and ask many questions. Recognize the presence of earth guides and use them for their knowledge and experience. Always remember that God accepts you at any level of your existence. Love is your birthright. No one judges you and your success is celebrated by many others. We walk beside you and welcome you here. This is where you belong, for now and We will do our best to teach you all that We know.

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More Concerns to Conquer

April 3, 2013 – 2:22 pm

There is a swirl of activity around us. We are being impacted by good energy and some darker energy as well. The increased flow of energy that accompanied this Time of Christ may also be used by the darker side for their benefit as well. Be cautious. You may have noticed some increased spirit activity but please don’t assume that it is positive and for your best interest.

It is best to surround yourself in White Light and give your spirit guides and angels permission to protect you from anything that is dark or earthbound.

Much more needs to be done. There are many problems that may plague your home life. Many of these must be dealt with so you have strength to be a beacon of good and positive energy.

Most importantly are any substance abuse issues. This applies to you, your spouse, your parents, your children, and any close loved ones. Do not negate the importance of this issue. Any and all affected loved ones must gain sobriety and recovery. Counseling and group participation are strongly suggested.

Have you known someone who stopped drinking alcohol but did not get further help to address their other related issues. They did not find the Light. They were sober but did not know joy and were unable to effectively deal with stress. They behaved much the same as they did while drinking. There was an abundance of anger and a lack of coping skills. They were easily overwhelmed and began to push people out of their lives because social stress was too much for them.

The abuser of substances AND their loved ones need treatment. This is a time when prayer is good but it is not enough. We have acknowledged that Western Medicine is helpful for the treatment of many illnesses. This also includes the counseling and group participation needed to treat a recovering substance abuser and their loved ones.

Faith alone will not help you navigate the multitude of emotions that you have not coped with in many years. Newly sober people are not equipped to find their way without numbing their feelings and buffering the impact of outside forces. They are starting over and need to be coached how to find peace and contentment.

The loved ones of someone who is newly sober knows how trying this time is. There are a spiral of emotions and feelings that seem to flow without control. Everyone needs help. The substance abuser and their spouse, parents and children. This is a family dynamic that may not resolve without outside intervention.

The next few concerns that need to be addressed are income, stress, conflict and being valued.

Income is important because we all need to be independent and self-sustaining. We have many lessons in maturity that will not happen unless we seek and maintain gainful employment. This is one of the important footholds of a healthy and faithful life. If you are elderly, disabled or otherwise unable to work, then make your contribution by other means. Being busy and creative adds to the positive energy of the world.

Stress is a major hold back when one is seeking enlightenment. If you lack faith and allow stress to overwhelm you, many milestones will not be reached. There are so many levels of ascension that you will not see if you allow low and meaningless issues stop your progress.

Conflict is a hallmark of your lower self. There is a vast difference between how an enlightened person deals with conflict and a person with less maturity. Anger, aggression and violence are not in God’s Plan. There is no “good” reason to be engaged in conflict. Behaving as your higher self you would resist any anger and seek understanding and peace. If there is no resolution without anger than you would walk away and bless them along their path.

Believing in your value is also very important for your ascension. We are eternal. We came into this life to grow and to learn. We are always a work in progress. Love yourself. Understand your human frailty and seek expansion. Your partnership with God is eternal and we have so much more to experience in this life and many others.

Begin here. Face these challenges and seek help from our guides and other higher energies. There is no skipping forward. If you have issues with abusing substances, this needs to be resolved. If you lack an income, or are overwhelmed with stress, or engage in conflict, then this where you begin. We are here to help. Our goals are yours as well. Let us walk together and navigate some unresolved concerns. Most importantly, love yourself and want better.

Walk as God would walk. Talk as God would talk. Find your higher self on this journey and accept the peace that comes with complete faith. We want this for you. Amen.

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Milestones

March 27, 2013 – 4:04 pm

Many of you have begun to make that all-important trek of ascension. Don’t be too hard on yourself. There are always missteps and lapses in judgment. It is ok since your overall progression is forward.

Release any residual feelings of having wasted time or moments of your life. It is a good thing to start now. God knows forgiveness most of all and as long as you are not intentionally harming anyone, all is well.

Do you have lingering hang-ups blocking forgiveness? Do you still judge based upon someone’s appearance or speech? Have you resisted volunteering or being charitable?

All is well. It is good to take small steps and stick with it instead of broad sweeping changes and being unable to sustain them.

Many good deeds may be done just by positive thoughts, prayer and resisting your need to judge. That sounds pretty simple doesn’t it? Be kind and generous in your thinking about others that you come into contact with in your everyday life. This is an excellent start.

It may be more likely that you will take that next charitable step after that. We are on one team. We all evolve in a supportive and empowering environment. Negativity and suffering diminish if you share your Light and God’s Light as well.

Make ample time for prayer. As you go about your day look for people to say a quick prayer for. Wish for them whatever benefits you would like them to have. Whether it be healing, hope, a good night’s sleep… Be thoughtful and conscientious. Behaving in this manner is successful in the eyes of God.

Give more, worry less. Smile more, show less anger. Praise more, judge less. These tenets of life are so much more simple than most people make them to be. Behaving as Christ did will not run you into ruin. Promise.

If it seems like spirit is guiding you to think and behave more positively, it is true. This is a habit that spirit would like you to make now and greater deeds will be built upon it. The past few days we have encouraged selflessness and charity. We have asked you to know and align with the life of Christ. We have shown you many avenues for Light to come in and to go out of your life. Simple, yet profound.

If we overwhelm you with tasks and plans you may not be able to make the needed changes. Let us begin at home. Let us find God and send love to all others. Allow us to build our own house of God and then assist others to do this as well. Do not be impeded by someone’s appearance or speech. Send love and pray for their wellbeing.

Simple, yet direct. We will build you that Stairway to Heaven if you allow us to. There is nothing in life as important and meaningful as the enlightenment of your soul. We are here to “guide” and we want complete attunment for you.

Go with the Grace of God. Go with our support. Know that we walk beside you at all times. Say Grace as many times as your heart feels compelled to do. Walk in the footfalls of Christ, without fear. It is ok to “know” your thoughts and beliefs. We have NOT asked you to loudly profess your faith. All is well.

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With Ease

March 18, 2013 – 5:41 pm

Everything is calmer and sailing more smoothly right now. Mercury retrograde has ended and we are able to move forward with more grace.

Many of us have begun to feel more spiritual. There are events in our lives that have caused us to feel “blessed.” We have asked for assistance and we have been given some timely, well-needed answers.

You may be testing your bottomless bank account. You’re finding that God truly does respond at a moments notice. Now, you may want to give other guides a chance?

Angels and Archangels are always ready to help. You merely have to ask. Some people have been saved from accidents by stating, “Angels help me now!” Then miraculously, trajectories shift and bumps soften. People who felt they would surely be killed or seriously injured where left with minor injuries!

Never resist calling upon angels. They do not care if your needs are big or small, they only wish to assist you. We all have angels that remain with us but we may also ask for more. Then, make sure you give them permission to help you otherwise your requests may be futile.

You may even send angels to the side of loved ones or other people in need. Send angels of comfort and contentment, angels of safety and security, angels of healing and well-being, angels of prosperity…Keep an open mind and always seek their help and guidance. You may even send an angel hug to someone to celebrate joy or to comfort them.

Archangels are well-known and have specific areas of concern. If you want more information please do a search for Archangels. We all have our own personal Archangel as well. Just by reviewing their areas of prowess you will likely figure out which one is your Archangel guide.

Spirit guides are not deceased loved ones. They are souls who usually reside on the Other Side. They have many generations of experience guiding humans in this earth-realm as well as other realms where we may travel to for experience. They are likely a good friend of yours and they have agreed to be with you during this incarnation.

There are also temporary spirit guides who are with you at specific times in your life. Then, there is your Higher Guide. They reside at your apex and they are often the voice that you hear most often. They remain with you for your entire incarnation. Other guides may come and go.

There are earth guides. These are people who you would call a mentor or teacher. They are human but you would swear that God had sent them at just the right time! This is true! Your earth guides charted their time with you. They have specific lessons to teach you or to help you process certain events. They come in at the designated time and they may leave your life as well. Some earth guides may remain in your life for years! It happens just as the two of you agreed to prior to this incarnation.

You also have deceased loved ones who visit you at various times. They enjoy being near during special times such as birthdays, holidays or the birth of a baby. They also come near when you are ill or stressed. They try to help and they may que you of their closeness by signature smells, songs, phrases or many differing hallmarks of their earth life that you would connect with them.

The ones who are not so familiar to everyone are the elementals. People who practise earth-based religions will be familiar with these beings and the souls of all contents of earth. There are guides associated with trees, water, plants…Even those who don’t practise earth-based religions may have elementals with them. Some of these were acquired in childhood by adventuring outdoors and utilizing your imagination. You spoke to all things alive or stagnant and may have developed a relationship with some of these beings during that time. Many people may ask for elementals now. It is part of our return to nature and attempting to reconnect with Mother Earth.

Elementals may also be helpful with other areas of life. If you would like to know more please do a search for them. Just a caution, there are definite musts and don’ts for engaging with elementals. Make sure you know exactly what it entails prior to asking for their presence.

There are a vast numbers of religions here on earth. The list of guides, helpers and workers is very long. There are Saints, Gods and Goddesses, and spirits of earth and her 4 directions. Trust your heart and know that you are never limited to amount of divine guidance you may receive.

We may begin in one religion as a child. Then, we may seek other sources of faith. We may completely change to another religion or we may utilize different aspects of many beliefs to form our own unique view on life.

It is possible to have a reading to discern what entities are near you at this time. Seek your familiar sources and see if they may give you some information. Whether you prefer psychic mediums, card readers, divination practises, prayer or any other guidance sources. Find out who your guides, angels, and other supporters are and why they are with you at this time.

Become familiar with the many avenues of spiritual assistance you have available to you. Live with ease. Tap into the bottomless bank account and KNOW that each day may be brighter and more blissful just by using your divine support system!

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Celebrate Goals Big and Small

March 12, 2013 – 2:39 pm

Celebrate even the smallest of things. How do we get better and keep improving our lives without hesitation? By acknowledging our successes.

Do you ever feel like you are just going with the flow? Like you have no set plan or nothing in particular to accomplish? Well, this may not be the best approach to life.

Time is better spent if you set goals and when you obtain them to set another goal. How else will we know if we are accomplishing anything? It is possible to assess your mood and attitude. If you feel good and things are going smoothly then you are making progress and your faith in God is fairly strong. But with this approach you aren’t sure what you are doing well and what continues to need work.

Goals will make all of your progress tangible.

Start with your feelings about yourself. Work on your confidence and self-appreciation. Recognize low moods and discover what is behind them. Set a goal to be happy and able to handle frustration or upset within a certain amount of time.
Goal- I will meet each day feeling positive and hopeful. I will handle stress and upset within 1 hour and will discover a way to deal with the concern and get back to feeling positive and hopeful.

The next goal may be with your spouse. Since this goal involves another person it may be more complicated to achieve it due to the potential responses by the other person. Select the most important aspects of your relationship and define a goal. You may lack trust, appreciation, respect, patience…
Goal- I will remind myself of one positive aspect of my relationship each time I think of my partner.
Goal- I will sit with my spouse for 1/2 hour at the end of the day and we will discuss how we are feeling and what were the important events of the day.
Goal- I will not argue or raise my voice when communicating with my partner.

The next goal may be about children or close family. Then a goal about co-workers, neighbors and community members. Keep going until you have addressed some of the more important relationships in your life.

Don’t overwhelm yourself. Maybe 2 goals are enough to start with. It may even be a good idea to recognize one problem with relationships that are going fairly well then add a goal about a more complicated relationship with someone else. Please don’t set goals for all of the most difficult and complicated relationships that you have. You need to have room for success or you will not follow through.

Always remember that people have their own free will. You may never get an apology or an acknowledgment from another person. You may feel like you have invested more time and attention into a relationship and the other person is not motivated to make improvements. This has to be ok with you. It is the trap of “keeping score” that undermines your own happiness and well-being.

Forgiveness is necessary for your own emotional healing. Sometimes you just have to let go. If you have such a difficult time coping with someone then it may be time to drop the expectations that you have for them. It is Ok for you to let them be. The only person you are able to change is yourself.

Allow yourself to be the person you want to be. Set some positive goals and keep going. Don’t allow yourself to be weighed down by others. Please don’t base your emotional wellness on the health and emotional wellbeing of another. This may be difficult to recognize at first. You may say that your happiness depends upon your spouse or your children or your job…This approach is not predictable or even possible. Your happiness depends solely upon you and your relationship with God and all of your Heavenly Hosts.

You are not alone and you never will be. You are always surrounded by loving beings who are near you for support and encouragement. Success in life is an important goal and it may not include the usual trappings we associate with financial success. We are here, in this incarnation, for spiritual growth and wellbeing.

Find that stable, loving and nurturing place within you. It is from that place that all of your relationships flow including the relationship you have with yourself. Find God in all people, places and things. Know that this is the time to make your desire for spiritual growth known. If you are in a healthy place then all of your life circumstances will improve as well.

It is ok to be strong, valuable, confident, loving, supportive and flexible. This is who you want to be and no one benefits from times when you are overwhelmed and uncertain. God shares with you His strength. Begin within yourself and radiate healing and love to those in your life.

Success is the strength of your bond with God and your behavior will reflect it. Amen.

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Offer Love

March 4, 2013 – 7:06 pm

Offer love.

When understanding and empathy fail, offer love.

When hope and trust fail, offer love.

When fellowship and attachment fail, offer love.

When your eyes are not able to dismiss their skin color, offer love.

When your heart is unable to accept their motivation, offer love.

When you are unable to understand their family dynamic, offer love.

When their unemployment doesn’t make sense to you, offer love.

When you are not able to see past their disability, offer love.

When you don’t understand their spiritual beliefs, offer love.

When you cannot add up their life’s worth, offer love.

When God sends them to you for support, offer love.

When their troubles mirror yours, offer love.

When their troubles don’t mirror yours, offer love.

When your heart rejects their sense of self, offer love.

When there is no other way, offer love.

We must offer others their value as a person and a vessel of God. We must do our best to see them for their true selves and not impose our expectations upon them. We are people of different colors, faith and religions. We are not here to judge but rather to accept all others for who they really are. Our duty is not to pressure them into compliance with our norms and values but to celebrate who they are and accept that they offer us a different perspective on many things in our world.

Where we do we go from here? To a global community. To loosen our expectations and instead receive diversity as the gift that it is.

God does not envision us as “different” or “unusual.” We must do our best to see others as fellow humans upon the same path. The lessons and outcomes are the same. No culture is better than another. We are equals and each of us is set upon a path of knowledge and enlightenment.

Education is at it’s best when we ignore the differences among us. We truly are ONE and we all come to God through the same avenues, over the same barriers, and at the same time.

We are ONE and love speaks to us all. Amen.

(This is definitely a different guide. He is palpably strong and his words carry much weight. Maybe we will hear more from him in the near future!)

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